Is it normal that i get really annoyed with this guy talking to me?

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We were really good friends for a while, but around last Christmas I started suspecting he's romantically interested in me. We're internet friends, so he can only contact me through facebook. I used to love getting messages from him. But now I just get irritated. And the more messages he sends me in a day, the more I can't stand the thought of talking to him.

I still like him as a person, I just wish he wouldn't be so clingy! The problem is that I know he's not actually being clingy. It's me. I'm not romantically interested in him, and so the idea that he likes me is so irritating - everything he does that even hints at it makes me so angry. Maybe I'm being paranoid and unreasonable... I wish we could just go back to being friends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You ever think of saying this to him.

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    • NotStrangeBird
      10 years ago

      Not only that, but what kind of man wants to be "just friends" with a woman?

      There's no such thing.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        A man who is either a virgin or has no dick would be the only exceptions.

        I can kind of remember that I thought more of friendship with women before I had sex, and much less afterwards.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Poor "Nice Guy"... Is he ugly?

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  • bodazzy
    10 years ago

    friendzoned, if only he knew he's already fucked

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    • sickonine
      10 years ago

      yeah...

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  • ChasingUnicorns
    10 years ago

    MAKE IT CLEAR!
    don't leave him hanging.
    coming for personal experience and being a guy.

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  • SDDA
    10 years ago

    It's normal to get like this. Either you really don't like him in that way and want to stay away from him (most likely because he's ugly) OR you're starting to see the hints and are getting irritated because you don't want to think about him liking you, because the more you think about it the more you're going to start liking him, and then you do and what if he doesn't? My advice: avoid him for a bit... if you don't want to like him. Or ask him if he likes you, maybe you'll get an answer!

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