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So when I was younger, girls were always looking at me, it made me feel good when they did. If i asked a girl out, she said yes. Now I am married and have wonderful kids but I find that girls are not looking at me as much and for some weird stupid reason, it bothers me. Is this normal
give the guy a break for christ sake. He simply just wants to know if he still got it. Yes you probably have grown old and are less attractive to younger women and even women your own age. However it happens to everyone. When i was in high school i was always the "hot guy" now i am out of school however am still only 20 years old and havent really changed much if anything am probably more attractive as i am more muscular however people simply grow up and dont feel the need to stare in aw at the opposite sex if they find you attractive.
If I were your wife I would slap you.
You are MARRIED, you don't need to be looking at girls and they don't need to be looking at you.
I'm not sure, but the same sort of thing happened to me. I used to get loads of female attention, now I get more attention from gays -_-
I am a pleasant exception to the rule, because I am 18, yet I usually find men 25-40 more attractive than teenagers. Just continue taking care of yourself. There is no reason to feel ugly just because you aren't a kid anymore. :)
It's completely normal.
Men still want to feel attractive just like Women do.
Ok i get where the others are coming from, because if you are happily married then why should it matter what others think or how they look at you? You're off limits.
I guess you just miss your youth and perhaps how much you were desired or whatnot. Maybe you don't have that as much now with your wife, i dont know.
But if there is anything you can do to get closer with your wife, stuff to do at home then try and do it, then you might not worry about how others see you. because you'll be happy.
Unfortunately, you've grown old and haggard with the kids. Your air of youthfulness has been replaced with that of responsibility. It happens to us all eventually :o(