Is it normal that i get jealous when my bf talks to/about other girls?

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okay so I have a boyfriend who claims he really likes, cares for me and we been together for a month. we had sex twice but still we have been "sweet talking" and he said he still cares but is going through a DAMN hard time! we both haven't been in relationships for almost 2 years (ironic, huh?) and he says I'm the nicest girl he ever met. anyway whenever he talks to or even about OTHER girls I get really jealous and pissed off! he hasn't called me pretty or anything ever since we had our first date. I call him cute but all he says is thanks. I hope I'm JUST overreacting. he posted a picture on his facebook and instagram about a famous singer? I believe. he said "bae" "pretty" and stuff like that. it really hurts my feelings when he does that shit. he has a lot of female friends but claims I'm more important than them..he said this yesterday btw. well he is really,really depressed and I saw a comment on Ingrid Michaelson's video it was a sad song, ballad I believe. he commented "this song actually attracts me to her especially with the shit I'm going through right now" I was like wtf. I deleted my youtube app and now he texted me "good morning". I never replied. but the point is, should I be really jealous when he talks to or about other girls, EVEN his friends/sisters! iam a kinda narcisstic girl, so please don't criticize me i'ts just my personality. I know they're celebrities and all but still, and he talks to other girls, heaven knows what the hell they're talking about..sorry. but is this normal at all? thanks!

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  • fluffy1uv
    7 years ago

    The question isn't whether or not it's normal that your jealous but whether or not it's normal that you haven't kicked him to the curb yet.

    You deserve someone who treats you well, calls you pretty every day, isn't ever talking about other girls around you and definitely not posting pictures of other women on social media.

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  • Jess1010
    7 years ago

    Sounds like he is just playing around with whatever girls he can. If a guy isn't making it obvious he is committed to just you, then he isn't. He is stringing you along to see what he can get and when he is done he will act like the two of you never had anything going. Save face and self esteem and focus on other stuff until a better guy comes along.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Maybe the two of you aren't actually all that compatible? It's possible that you actually need some space. He sounds kinda like a jerk.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Attraction is a cruel game: a man you are truly attracted to will put you in a perpetual state of insecurity. By flirting with other girls he's making you crazy enough to post on this site.

    The only real option you have is to become more feminine, more charming and more attractive.

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