Is it normal that i get jealous about my gf grinding with other guys?

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My girlfriend and I are both seniors in high school. I go to a private high school and she goes to public. At school dances they freak dance the entire time and I get insanely jealous just thinking about it. We've been dating 10 months and the second dance just went by and now prom is in a month. We've gotten in countless amounts of fights about this dating all the way back to early august and I've never gotten my way. She of course asked me to prom and I asked her the question of whether or not she'd be grinding on other guys and she said yes. We fought and it was horrible and than she finally said fine you win you win and screamed it in my face and made me feel horrible. Is it normal that I get jealous over this? Because I seem to be in the minority according to a lot of her friends at her school. comments please!

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  • maddie123
    13 years ago

    You're right she's wrong

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    you are both way too young to be in a serious relationship. sounds to me that she just wants to have fun. why not suggest an open relationship.

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  • rubish1
    7 years ago

    she is a hoe just break up with her if she doesn't stop:) :D <3

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  • MR.mr
    8 years ago

    you have more tolerance than me I wouldn't continue to date a girl who did that

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  • aahsx
    11 years ago

    As a girlfriend , if something bothers you then she shouldn't do it. Don't worry man, your not in the wrong for this situation .

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Wow that's like one step awy frm cheeting

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  • NCman89
    13 years ago

    Hell yeah it's normal I can't stand that anyway you respect her enough not to do that with other girls so why would she especially right in front of you. Your pretty brave I'll give you that I have a very low tolerance for that I did alot of fighting in high school over it. If she does it at the prom go your own way and start grinding on other girls alls fair in love and war. good luck

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  • TrippleDPR
    13 years ago

    fuck her mate and see how she likes it

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  • TyLee
    13 years ago

    Ugh too young to be in a serious relationship!!!

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  • Luis0307
    13 years ago

    Your a dumbass for still being with her -_-
    Either way, Cheat on her haha

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  • (:sweet:)
    13 years ago

    Shes a bitch forget her. Just start dancin woth girls see how she likes that!

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Slut

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  • Ramit10
    13 years ago

    Tell her to stop being a slut. Dont feel bad that you win it will only happen every so often to when you do win feel hornored.

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  • SpoiltCandy
    13 years ago

    100 % normal

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  • harto
    13 years ago

    It's normal for an outgoing girl around that age to want to have fun. However, those dances might not mean anything. She just likes to see the reactions of other guys.

    Either confront her, give her an ultimatum, such as cease or get out of my face, or give her a taste of her own medicine.

    But like a previous poster said, relationships at your age is a little too young. Have fun and mix with other girls. Getting steady will come eventually when you find the right one.

    Hope this helps

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  • Mr-Time
    13 years ago

    Agreed, the main part of being in a relationship is respecting your parnter and stop being physically close to other people. I mean no hugs or crap but random grinding is a definate bad idea. Get rid of her.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    Freak dancing is so weird anyways.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    I mean the title says it all. It seems obvious to me....she's being gross.

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  • chezycheze
    13 years ago

    You should tell her why it bothers you so much. If she doesn't understand, then you should reconsider the type of relationship you're in. Like, if you want an exclusive relationship and she is not even willing to make a small commitment then you should probably reconsider having a relationship with her.

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    • chezycheze
      13 years ago

      But, regardless, someone you care about grinding with another guy is almost always not a good feeling.

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    Agreed with all above. She doesn't respect you or your feelings. Get rid of her.

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  • rukii
    13 years ago

    Dude I don't like it too thts wht my x did and ugh didn't like it at all after many things happened I broke up with her :/

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    Hell yeh it's normal! Tell her if she really cared about u she would stop doen it as it really upsets u.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    absolutely bro

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