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I seriously get jealous about everything when it come to my boyfriend and another girl. He looked a porn behind my back for a few years and I cought him and he lied about it all three times. So I feel like he messed my Brain up and we have been together for over 3 years but porn was over a year ago. And I do believe he's just a normal guy.
More normal that people make it out to be. I've said it once, and I'll say it again. This site is full of very sexualized people. Virgins, sluts, perverts, you name it lol I think you're normal, I mean, he lied to you. It's heart breaking! Maybe if he took the time to explain, it might be different, but he hid it, and that creates trust issues. As much as people think it's not a big deal, it can be hard for a girl who doesn't do that kind of stuff herself. It's in the same sense that some people who don't drink don't want to date a drinker, or someone who's clean wouldn't date a druggy. They'd both tell you that it's not a big deal, and that if you're not doing it you're missing out. It's just not for us. I think it's the normalist thing in the world for a girl to want her boyfriend to only look at her.
You should watch it with him and play tug of war.
If you get my meaning.
This may be somewhat normal, but you need to learn to cope with it and not let your feelings ruin your relationship or future relationships! So many do!