Is it normal that i get happy when bad things happen to people i know?

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I can't help it. Sometimes when I hear or see something bad happening to someone I know, I get really happy. Not exactly EVERYONE I know. There are just a few people that would break my heart if they even shed a tear but as for everyone else, I just get so happy and sometimes even laugh when bad things happen to them. For example, I saw this girl i used to go to school with today and I saw that she had gotten fat since the last time i saw her. She used to be my friend and we never got into a fight or anything (just grew apart) but I was soooooooo happy when I saw that she was fat. I kept smiling to myself all day. I know this is crazy. It makes me feel crazy sometimes. Am I crazy or has anyone else experienced this?

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  • bethhunt188
    11 years ago

    I think you have a jealousy problem. I am not trying to be mean by this in any way- but you seem to be a very insecure person. Insecurity may be your worst enemy. You get happy when something bad happens to someone because it makes them seem less "perfect" than you may have perceived them to be in the first place.

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  • NoraBaker
    11 years ago

    Gloating is very very ugly.

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  • valbdreamer
    11 years ago

    Omg, i can't help laughing at this. Im sorry, but it was so funny for me to read your problem. lol
    Now, i don't think there is something REALLY wrong with you. It's just... thigs we cant explain. Maybe a personality problem. Like an advanced jealousy or envy problem.

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  • SheaDex
    11 years ago

    Yes I know this woman who was so so hot she made jessica alba and charlize theron look like absolute shit, i mean this woman, wow, i cant describe her radiance, shes fat now and i love it, i dont know why, its better she was too beautiful for this world to handle, she made aishwarya rai look like dog shit

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  • Boo!
    11 years ago

    It would be normal to laugh if your friend fell or something... I laughed when my friend got stung by a jellyfish you don’t encounter a lot of people getting stung by jellyfishes. I thought it was really cool even made her send me pics of her jelly scar and tried to make her feel better. If it was something like that I could understand but what you have done is really mean and I don’t know if it’s normal. (I'm sorry. I just really wanted to talk about the jellyfish moment. It was so cool!)

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  • Airstream3333
    11 years ago

    Yeah, thats not just abnormal but a little scarey and def sad. I get feeling envious of someone, and so then feeling somewhat relieved to see them in a negative situation, but that too is fucked. But because u dont feel that way about some people gives me hope for u, it means youre not a completely sociopathic person.

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  • thevampiredude7
    11 years ago

    Not to me it's not but I am a little crazy not loud insane guy more like quiet guy in the background

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Fat people make me happy too. Totally normal.

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    Sadism, the enjoyment of other peoples misfortunes. I'm sadist myself and frankly so are other people. Whether it is people you know or don't someone tripping over the sidewalk is funny.

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