Is it normal that i get extremely angry or upset when we're apart?

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We've been dating four months. I have grown accustomed to being by his side every moment I can. I have slept over at his house a few times, and I am almost never home except to sleep. And that's when I get upset. I get depressed. I feel hopeless like I'll never see him again or something, or I will day dream that something awful has happened. Then, when he tries to cheer me up, saying something like "It's okay, Love, I'll see you in the morning! It will come soon enough. I love you!" it just makes me angry. Once I see him though, I light up. We laugh and giggle and everything is ok. He isn't even ever bitter about my depression. Everything goes back to normal.

I'm beginning to think that I don't WANT to be happy when I'm not with him. It doesn't make sense, to me at least. Why should I be happy when we are separated?
Is this normal?

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Based on 30 votes (11 yes)
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  • Dazzie
    12 years ago

    You emotionally depend on this guy. I agree with Valkeer, back off.

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  • crazyman143
    12 years ago

    I don't think there's anything wrong with being in love, and I don't think you need to distance yourself from the guy. BUT you need to work on being content with yourself and the other people around you. To be so attached to someone that you can't function without them is unhealthy. And will actually hurt your relationship in the long run. I say this all from experience, as I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl now, and I want to be with her literally all the time. It irritates me that I can't. But I realize it's something I need to work on, and that's what I'm doing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Man (people) is a sorry breed. Don't base your happiness around them.

    You need to back away from this guy. Now. The sooner you do, the sooner you'll be at peace.

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    • Energy
      12 years ago

      I agree. All though you may be in love, it sounds like you are worrying way to much. I had the same problem with my ex. Until they did me wrong, and it hurt like hell! I suggest, you stay away or you may end up hurt REALLY bad. I think it's your instincts. I didn't follow mine, and I truly regret it.

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    I use to have a person like this.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    You should never depend on one person for happiness. It's good that you two are close, but you need some time to miss each other here and there. Spend time with family or friends, or find a hobby to do by yourself when you're not with him.

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  • emotionalwreck4ever
    12 years ago

    yuu miss him too much, i feel like that only sometimes but i dont get angry i get upset at times but eventually get over it, maybe yuu need a break from him, yuu should go out with friends more often.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You are obviously very young and immature. You are going to drive him away from you.

    I really feel sorry for you. Please get out and get some sort of social life that doesn't revolve around him.

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