Is it normal that i get creeped out by physical affections?

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Physical contact with a boy or a girl by means of sexual intercourse makes me puke. I have this feeling that makes my skin crawl. Once someone likes me I know that it can lead to physical contact and feelings and I backaway and get turned off. Am I asexual? I can think that they are goodlooking, be friends with them, butnothing more than that. I've never had a bf so it's not my past that's causing this stunt. Guys and girls just transform into revolting forms once they hint that they fancy me or could lead to that.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    It is possible to have a romantic relationship without sex, but most people these days are generally not interested in that any more.

    I think it could be that you're not ready for sex and other people just don't respect that.
    It's a self-defence mechanism because it seems that most people that are interest in you just want to take advantage of you for sexual purposes.

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    • wheezypenguin
      11 years ago

      If I had to put myself in a category to clarify my current sexual orientation then asexuality would fit it. You're right, in the future it may change but at the moment I have no interest in sex or high level of physical contact.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Not Asexual I think, there's a difference between "i don't want sex" and "the thought of people having sex with me makes me feel ill"

    Perhaps see a therapist or something? find out where this revulsion is coming from. If it is a reaction to "I don't want to do this" then yes, maybe asexual is a better term to describe you, but it may be psychological, which means it may be something you can overcome.

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  • Steve92
    11 years ago

    Yes, you are indeed asexual!

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    You might be asexual. There's nothing wrong with that. In fact, it sound like you might be aromantic. Again, that's fine.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    i'd recommend talking to a doctor if you want to change this.

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  • A_Wonderful_Username
    11 years ago

    I'm similar, don't worry. I passed out in health during sex ed. And I would imagine I could never get too intimate with someone without passing out, or running and hiding. I think the difference is that I am probably more AFRAID of intimacy and sex than you are.

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  • Thewomanizer
    11 years ago

    WOW, this sounds alot like me tbh, but im trying to work on it, you've basically said everything i would have said. Maybe we are twins!!

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    • wheezypenguin
      11 years ago

      Maybe we are...

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