Is it normal that i get bored of relationships?

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My shortest relationship ever was a week and the longest was 6 months. I am always the one that ends my relationships because, well I get bored. I feel like the crush stage and the flirting is so much fun that when I get into a relationship it's all boring again. I feel like I'll never be in an actual relationship because I can't stay in one for very long. It is normal that I feel that maybe I should just have flirting buddies instead of boyfriends?

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Based on 45 votes (34 yes)
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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    if she can hadouken she's a keeper

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    It depends how old you are? You may be too young to develop more serious feelings.
    When you fall in love, you won't get bored.
    You will have a proper relationship one day. I am just getting the impression that you're too young to handle a serious relationship anyway and that it's best if you go out and have some fun instead. I was like that at one time.

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    • IrishPotato
      11 years ago

      Depending on maturity really. Not on age.
      I was 14 when I got into this relationship that lasted for over 3 years.
      She cheated though, but that's beside the point. We loved eachother, or atleast I did.

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      • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
        11 years ago

        Cheating doesn't exactly show maturity though does it?
        I'd say at the age of 17/18 everyone will be old enough/mature enough to handle an adult relationship.

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        • IrishPotato
          11 years ago

          Well, no. Let's just say I was the more mature one.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Age makes a difference, but you are right, the chase seems like most of the fun! And when the relationship is new both try harder to make the other intensely happy! But more mature couples enjoy the true bond and stability

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Some people are okay with boring, and others aren't. I prefer the word "comfortable" lol I'm cool with it, but you're obviously not. Maybe you'll mellow out when you're older? If you don't it's no big deal either, the world is full of people like you now adays. Same reason why I don't want to have children.

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  • Its_Called_Love
    11 years ago

    It sucks when that beginning stage is over. Its better to just take the "boyfriend" title out of the way. Once a guy knows your his girlfriend, he stops trying as much. Js...

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  • NothingxCrazy
    11 years ago

    This was me a few years ago. I always felt like the beginning was the most affectionate so when it died down, I was no longer comfortable or happy with the person.
    I've grown up a bit and realize it's not all gonna be fun and romantic. That's too much to ask to have ALL the time.

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  • MiaScarlette.
    11 years ago

    Maybe you need to find the right person.

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  • myownopinions
    11 years ago

    The trick is to find a boyfriend that will always keep you on your toes. Or, at least that's what I'd guess...

    Either way, yes, it is normal to get bored with relationships.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    You are probably young, right? Any how, next time you need to not have the title of boyfriend/girlfriend in the equation so early. Wait a couple of months. Also, not saying it is your fault, but do you keep the relationship spicy or spontaneous? I mean as in, like to go out and do random things, give each other space, do things that the partner likes but you may not have ever enjoyed just to keep something new going?

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  • MissyLeyneous
    11 years ago

    Maybe you just haven't ever found "the One"? :/

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  • Sunnydayz
    11 years ago

    Don't worry my BF and me had a relationship for 2 days and it got boring. Hehe
    But we're still friends ;)

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    Yeah, of course. There's nothing wrong with ending relationships because they get boring.

    Also, if you're not quite sure what you want in life, which is the case for most young adults, it's best not to get into anything that's too serious. In my opinion, anyway

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      This.

      OP, most younger folk love excitement, and when you get older, that urge for stability could settle in with you making a steady relationship a lot more appealing.

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      • Corleone
        11 years ago

        Couldn't have said it better. :)

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