Is it normal that i get bad vibes from people i don't know?

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So, I work in a small store with a salon attached. The two ladies that work in the salon are really loud and outgoing. I started out having mixed feelings about the girls because I am normally shy and to my self. I felt like they judged me for everything from what I wore to what I said. I got to know them and I don't feel like that so much any more but I still get those feelings here and there. I feel like they think they are better than every one else. I also think thats possibly because they dress really nice every day and are loud and outgoing, and thats what just a stereotype that has been implanted into every human being for ages because of social media and influence. ANYWAY, one of the girls sister came in and she docent come in very often. She just gives of this vibe of being "stuck up" and "full of her self" or not very nice and friendly. I don't know her and I hate to say these things but that is just the vibe I get from her and I am still nice to her I just feel like she's judging me and all that..IIN?

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    It's ironic you feel judged when you are the one judging.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Don't be an ass hole

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        Asshole? You asked a question on this site, and you got an answer. Don't take it out on somebody because it wasn't the answer you wanted to hear. You ARE being judgemental by looking at them and assuming they are stuck up and not very nice, yet you're bothered by the fact that they might be judging you? You're the one judging, which is a normal human reaction, but get the fuck off of your high horse would you? Don't call people assholes just because they give you the cold hard truth. You're on the internet, not at some support group where everyone kisses ass and makes you feel like nomatter what douchebaggery you've been up to its okay because its not your fault. This is the internet, and you will get ruthlessly honest answers here.

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  • unionclocks
    9 years ago

    Completely normal. Every human, no matter if they say they aren't judgemental or whatever, will judge a person. This is because stereotypes allow us to make quick judgements about people, and even if you're simply assuming, you change your behavior according to those quick judgements we make. I mean for example: you might be rude to someone who you deem to be arrogant from a quick meeting, but there's a high chance that they probably are arrogant, and you're acting correctly//correct to how you want to react. I mean you wouldn't be nice to someone who's arrogant, or at least, i wouldn't. We make stereotypes exaclty for this purpose, and if you get that stereotype wrong then really...nothing can be done. It's literally human nature to judge people.

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  • MissDethstar
    9 years ago

    I understand you completely, I work in a government building and I get those bad vibes all day long and sometimes they are indeed true ( yep, not everyone we meet is kind ). I try not to judge people or not to care too much about whether they judge me or not but the way they stare at me up and down and their lack of common politeness just drives me up the wall. My only other theory to those bad vibes is that they might be intimidating us ( not on purpose tho ). Perhaps the way they act/look make shy people like us feel out of place. So personally, I think It's normal... Some people are actually full of themselves and not really nice, there's nothing outrageous about that fact.

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