Is it normal that i get angry when a guy flirts with me

Ok,so anytime that a guy tries to flirt or "make a move" with me I get really angry.this guy walked up to me about a week ago,looked me up-and-down and said "what's up?" Then I got really pissed! I don't know why.I wanted to punch him in the face! I do not get flirted with A LOT,but anytime I do I get angry.I do not have anger issues and I am a very forgiving person.I try to be nice to everyone.I am not in a relationship at the moment.if a guy asks me out I have no problem with it,I usually say yes.but,if a guy flirt with me I just get really pissed and walk away without saying a word.Is this normal?

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Based on 118 votes (82 yes)
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  • Yes, I think it's normal you feel that way. It does seem a little too forward or cocky to be authentic, so that's repulsive. No doubt it would bother you. The angry feeling probably comes from not feeling like you have much control over the situation; you can't stop them from approaching you like that. And a lot of those guys that do that, are dicks about it when you turn them down.

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  • Mando

    Well if walking up to a stranger, leering at them and saying "what's up" is what constitutes flirting for guys these days then no wonder you're pissed. That is not flirting - it is just being a rude clod.

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Depends on if you like dudes or girls

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  • saddenedunicorn

    Lol he asked what's up and you got angry? Are you sure he was even flirting with you?

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  • KeddersPrincess

    For me, it's how they do it. I had a group of guys checking me out and saying "Look at that bitch down there!" as if I were not a person. Yeah; that really pissed me off, and it didn't make me feel too good about myself either, but when a guy approaches me and introduces himself to me in a gentlemen kind of way, I find it flattering. It all just depends in how they do it for me. I know some guys can be assholes and look at a woman like she's just a piece of meat. No one wants to feel like they are anything less than human so that would make sense to be angry, but I think if a guy is just attracted to you and he wants to talk to you, then that's nice.

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  • justaboringgirl

    I totally understand how you feel,like you I dont get hit on much. I also try to be very calm, polite, understanding, and forgiveing to others. But when men do flirt with me I start to get upset and feel like I am being disrespected. But it also depends on who is flirting with me,how long I have known that person, and how they do it. If it is just some random guy that I ran into at the store or someone that I know flirts around a lot then I get angry. I feel like they really don't knowmor care about me as a person, and they are just looking for an easy lay. However, if it is a man I have known for a while and has actually made an effort to get to know me first,I feel more flattered and attracted to him. I personally look for men who show genuine care and have loving personalities, rather then some guy who treats me like a cheap piece of meat.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    I know what you mean. I felt this guy staring at me on the bus the other day and I looked over and sure enough he was starting me up and down. My face contorted into the dirtiest look I've ever felt, just out of reaction, because I was pretty much shocked to be examined like that.

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  • CheyChey

    I used to feel that way when I was like 15 because I hated boys then don't know why though but now it depends on what the person looks like not to be shallow but if he looks like shrek and trys to flirt with me I get irritated I'm not the best looking girl but I have standards and as said by keddersPrincess the way the guy does the flirting, also some guys have this insincere look in their eyes that just says I want to sleep with you and that dosen't go well with me

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