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I'm a 19 year old virgin girl..today I was with my boyfriend while we were making out; he put his finger inside my vagina..it didn't hurt me although i know its supposed to hurt i guess ..and when i went home i found a blood stain but its very light red .. I'm not sure what this is and I really wanna know If i'm still a virgin
The hymen breaks pretty easily sometimes. Just riding a bike or running can break it - hence the blood.
Or maybe your period is starting.
If he didn't stick the D in you then you're a virgin.
Good grief, if it's not a penis it doesn't count, at least that's how I see it. I don't think fingers and tongues count.
You may have clenched down too tightly on your boyfriends finger and your vaginal teeth bit of his tip.
Yeah. Just because he ... Broke (is that the right term.) ur hymen doesn't mean he deflowered you. I think that only comes with real penetration. My advice would be to not put so much emphasis on being a virgin. Unless ur a nun or saving urself for marriage, chill out. Ur a beautiful young woman and it's 2014. LIVE! Lol
Have you had sex? No? Then you're a virgin. Intact hymen does not equal virginity. Lots of girls break theirs by playing sports or using tampons.
You're still a virgin if only a finger went in. Hymens are pretty fragile, I guess you can say. Like someone else already mentioned, riding a bike, horseback riding, or even a tampon can break it. Some girls are even born without one!
It was probably blood from when he fingered you. It happens sometimes. No worries though.
What is not normal is for you to be a 19 year old girl who has never had sex. Do you know what women who waited until they were older to lose their virginity say? "I should have done this years ago!"
Have sex as soon as you can, so you can start to learn how to have sex.
Physiologically speaking you arent a virgib anymore. Sounds like he broke your hymen. Tradionally though, since it wasnt a penis, youre still a virgin.