Is it normal that i find relationships and dating meaningless?

Every relationship has it's disagreements but that doesn't mean it won't work out and that it's pointless. If you agreed on everything, it would be boring. You can still be independent whilst with someone.
We do it for love. Because love is the best thing ever. I'm guessing you have never been in love.

Because, like a lot of people have said already, having disagreements in a relationship doesn't make the relationship pointless. In the same way the we can be good friends with people we have disagreements with (at least we can if we have any degree of maturity whatsoever), we can also be in a good relationship with people who you have disagreements with, and this only breaks down if one person is too stubborn to allow the disagreement to come to a mutually beneficial conclusion.

If your relationships can't survive disagreements then there's something fundamentally wrong with the way you approach both disagreements and relationships.

There's nothing wrong with not wanting a relationship, but I don't think it's normal.

"Why do people hunt for someone to give up their individuality for?"

Because they accept that their individuality is not the greatest individuality, and that their personality could become richer by exposing it to and combining it with someone else's. In a healthy relationship both people understand that they should keep their individualities, sharing some parts of their lives and keeping other parts separate. In a healthy relationship nobody gives up their individuality.

Sorry there is no logic in love.
If we programmed a computer with all our details and our partners details I am sure the computer would say, why stay together?

Now this independence thingy.
What is your independence? Loneliness, a prostitute every now and then?
People like company, I know its strange.
We group together and 'socialize' together. Can you imagine dancing at a nightclub on your own? What would be the use?

I think the definition is we like sharing happiness.
If you climbed a mountain wouldn't it be nice to turn to your partner and say We did it :) OR would you just stand on the mountain alone, with no one to share your feelings with?

Anyway, the answer is love. Not lust!
I thought I'd already told you this.

You don't have to agree on everything, though. And disagreeing on things doesn't have to lead to destructive behaviour.

I don't have a religion and I dated someone who has a religion mistrusted in the west. Rather than cause conflict, it was an opportunity for me to learn something first-hand. And it wasn't all for sex because we never had sex.

So based on the answers/comments all of us here have posted, you never really wanted an answer. You simply wanted to argue with everyone. Fuck off, dude.

There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved- George Sand

And happiness, even though fleeting or temporary makes life worth living. Without it, human beings would wipe themselves out.

There is a strong connection between happiness and mental strength and stability. Good Luck to you brainchild. May you find happiness in your imbalanced perspective.

You know why your arguements within your relationships are destructive?
Because you're selfish.
You're so selfish, and too damn proud to make your partner happy at the expense of yourself.
You're so self-absorbed, that you're unable to realize you might be actually wrong, and you want to enforce your own opinion upon your partners. Thus a fight is caused.

That's kinda what you're doing in the comments-section here.
You don't even THINK about the comments people give you, but you instantly jump to offensive mode and counter every single thing the other person says. And I bet you're like that in real life too.
Everything she says, no matter if she's right or wrong to begin with, you have to counter it and turn it into a big fight.

The relationships that last are the ones that encourage indivuality. When two people disagree, arguments don't have to happen. It is possible to walk away without giving up a part of yourself. It is called respect, and an act of love. I'm sorry if you find human connection meaningless, I hope one day you will understand.

Everything is meaningless in the grand scheme of life bro. Get used to it.

You're lucky if you do!

Sorry but I disagree with your entire rant.

You're totally right. I like people who analyze things and find out they're just plain stupid. Love does exist, and it mgiht not be something we have control over, but it should make us feel ashamed, because it adds nothing positive to our lives, most times it's destructive.

I don't believe in dating, because I think mutual love doesn't exist. What are the odds you'll be your loved one's loved one? Like...0, probably. So romantic relationships only exist because of settling.

And in response to the arguments in favor of love presented by people around here, I say that humans are stupid enoguh not be able to be satisfied with something without having other people's approval of their achievements.

Also, you don't need to have a romantic relationship to learn stuff from people who have opinions different from yours, you can have friends, acquaintances, you can watch TV and read books. And there is obviously no such thing as emotional gain because emotions are even more inutile than other inutile things (because I believe nothing has a purpose in this world.)

Dude are you gay?

I think your trying too hard to be intellectual

You are assuming that ones mindset stays constant all their life. that there is no such thing as learning from one another, having a different perspective. That one person, can have that ability to change another for the better. This has been the case for many persons.

In the same way there are also persons out there with like minds. He wasn't my lover since we never had sex, but the relationship was based on respect, sure we had our differences, but it was respect for one another that kept us from yelling/arguing..etc.

It's called love. Emotions can drive a person to do any number of things for the most illogical reasons, but that's life and that's the way humans work.

Sex is the single most pleasurable experience there is. Have you even ever had a relationship or sex because your idea on the matter is so way of the mark I would guess your a teenager, virgin, lonely and possibly ugly.