Is it normal that i find pale skin attractive as a black girl?

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Okay, so I feel like I'm not the typical black girl...since our media and sometimes I feel everyone else just wants black women to like stereotypical black men who are only into rap, trying to be "hard body", aggressive, etc. Me being almost an exact opposite, really shy, likes rock music, and not really wanting a super muscle guy or some scary gangster kind of guy. Not saying all black people are like that and I'm okay with being me. I just find it impossible not to love guys who have pale skin and semi-longish hair which is a bit scruffy. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't be into a girl like me, I'm just some average jane. But I would love to date a guy like that. I think it's because I study japanese and I'm immersing myself to learn the language more. In japan and other asian countries, they value pale skin as beautiful and I just agree...is that normal or maybe just wrong? :(

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  • Wandyr
    12 years ago

    That's perfectly normal. I'm a white guy and I'm attracted to darker-skinned women. It's really a matter of your perceptions and your personality. we live in a time where you should feel comfortable with whoever you're attracted to. The ideas of segregation in relationships have really changed over the past 30 years. Oh, and I'm sure there are plenty of pale skinned guys that would be quite attracted to you. Don't be afraid to ask a guy out sometime too. Being told "no" isn't so bad, and maybe he'll say "yes". Good luck to you!

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    You are defying the stereotype, go you!

    *high fives

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    • Shackleford96
      12 years ago

      Oh, and yes, I do think it's normal :)

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  • ariannel
    12 years ago

    You are allowed to be attracted to whomever you're attracted to. Go for it!!

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  • OCDC
    12 years ago

    You have the exact same taste in guys as me ^.^

    (I think it's normal! :D)

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    Don't be too sure they wouldn't be into a girl like you.

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  • CrimsonRain
    10 years ago

    Wow you sound exactly like me. i think i might have a sister *cries* :') its beautiful...

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    • Tystick
      9 years ago

      Im that guy she described above. Except for the hair because I had to get it cut to get a job. Damn political correctness. I love black girls and I also go down south if you know what I mean. Alot of black ladies complain about that their man doesnt do that. Shit I do I worship black women.

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  • UniqueOne
    11 years ago

    :O, I'm sorry but i must say this, ZUTARA !!, By your description you remind me of Katara from Avatar, An anime i watched, and the type of guys you described reminded me of Zuko...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    We are what we are. Why fight and question it? Some folks like feet, some folks like asses and you like light skin. Pretty harmless stuff I'd say...

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  • jesusdiedlol
    12 years ago

    You'd love my brother and im sure he'd love you too! :)

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  • MayaGyaru
    12 years ago

    Thank you everybody for you encouragement! :)

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