Is it normal that i find myself obssessing over someone i don't know

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Ok, maybe not obssessing. Let me explain: I came back to my normal high school (senior year, 18 years old, is it normal police.) after being sent to the "bad kid" school for the first semester. The day I came back, I had a girl in one of my classes who I though was absolutely gorgeous. She was the perfect amount of thick, (which i like.) She wasn't preppy, but not depressing either. Then I found out she smokes as much weed as I do, so I'm thinking "she's pretty much the definition of perfect for me." This is after speaking maybe 10 or so words with her. I'm even pretty sure that she liked me for a little, but I misconstrued the smiles she sent me as friendly gestures, so i backed off, and now she's with someone else. For so long I've been alone, so maybe that's why I took a liking to her so much, but... Is it normal?

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  • AssBurgers
    11 years ago

    There was a girl on MySpace (2006)who I used to talk to pretty much everyday after school. Blonde, cute, funny..I really liked this girl. She actually asked me for my number and I gave it to her, but we never spoke over the phone nor did I ever ask to meet up with her. To this day, I still think about her a few times a month...wishing I'd had the cojones to ask her out.

    There was another girl who I should've asked out in 2008. I was still at school, but for the last two years I went to a college to do media & music tech., every Wednesday. I got on great with this girl, we liked the same TV shows, had the same sense of humour and I knew she fancied me because I overheard her calling me beautiful once...not handsome, beautiful :)

    But no, I failed to ask her out aswell and really regret that. So IIN? Yes.

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  • jax906
    11 years ago

    Yep. And you wonder if they still think of you...

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  • ucipher8
    11 years ago

    I have been obsessing with women since i was 5. Im in my twenties now. Ive had sex, two times, lost my virginity once (pay close attention) and still never had a girlfriend. After i lost my virginity i stopped obsessing about women that i worked with or went to school with; it was painful.

    5 years after losing my virginity, i haven't really been thinking about women, obsessing or whatsoever. Sure there was someone to think about before i slept but, that was all it was.

    Im in trouble now because I'm obsessed with someone again, and its not like the others. Just like you, i don't know this person, but still think about that person based on what i do know or even remember of that person.

    All i can say to you is, your 18. It's kind of dumb to fall in love so young. If you really like her, id want to live a day in your shoes and see if i can't get her attention again.

    If she looks happy with this guy, like Really happy, I'm sure you will find another fish.

    Then again, some users on this site have been virgins until 30 or 40 (not steve carrell btw)

    Love aint simple, lets put it that way. But if you saw her smile, and you like it, don't let it go before you know whether or not she really likes you or not.

    If she doesn't, suicide.

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  • Samson
    11 years ago

    Normal. I feel for you bro i too have had a girl i liked slip away.

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