Is it normal that i find myself in love with my friend?

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Okay, so I'm a 18 yr. old guy (I think I'm gay--dunno yet), and I've known my friend for quite a while now. About 6 years. He is the same age as I. Every time I talk to him (even though we've known each other for a long time) I kinda get red and begin to stutter. We have many things things in common, interest in music, interests, activities, hobbies, personalities etc. I hang out with alot of guy friends but for some reason whenever I'm around him I turn into a embarrasment. Although, I find his presence delightful, when we hang out we have a great time. Even when he is not around, I continue thinking of him. I some times dream/daydream that he holds me in his arms and kisses me... you know, stuff like that. I fantasize about him every single waking moment My question is--Is it normal--to not only like my friend--but possibly be in love with him? [Take in consideration that he is NOT gay--(at least that is what I believe)]

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  • Snefanie:)
    12 years ago

    Well I suppose it's normal unless it becomes an obbsession. Mabye confront him about it? If you have been friends for six years he won't think your a creeper for telling him. Well I hope everything works out for you:) I could imagine all the conflicting feeling you are having... Good luck!

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  • Almightymeow
    7 years ago

    if your really close just ask him.Personally only if my close friend ask i would tell.... just keep on being close and maybe someday something will happen :3

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  • mrfairfax
    10 years ago

    Do not interpret these as feelings of homosexuality. Guys have been "in love" without being gay. I believe this is more normal than most people know. Embrace the feelings, but do not interpret them as being gayness, per se, or i believe they will become a homosexual tendency. In other words, it's not gay until you label it and accept that label.

    My blog may help you see more clearly. http://were-not-gay.tumblr.com/

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  • Benny4Jesus
    12 years ago

    Romans 1:18-32
    Nature shows it plainly that homosexuality is not designed. Statistics show it plainly that homosexuality is not healthy. Homosexuals show it plainly that it is not beneficial to society.
    Wisdom shows us what is plain, the real problem is people want to do what they want to do, even when it is wrong. It's been going on since the beginning of time.
    The last verse here says that "they know the judgement of God." Everyone has been given a basic scale in the heart to measure right and wrong. Even if we were to "omit" homosexuality out of the equation, everyone would still be caught by their own words and found guilty of doing wrong. Doing good deeds do not erase the wrongs we have done, they only cover them up. The problem here is, heaven is heaven because everyone there is sin-free. The only hope for us all is to have our sins completely forgiven rather than covered up. And Jesus is the only One who can do this.

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  • piman
    12 years ago

    Just whatever makes you happy. I have nothing against gays, it's good to see that you're open about it too on a place so infested with trolls.

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