Is it normal that i find my father revolting?

Don't get me wrong here it is not that I hate my father to the core but there are so many actions committed by him which utterly repulsive. To name a few instances,

1. He is lazy as hell (can't even bend down to pick up stuff at his feet) and constantly orders me to do stuff for him despite it being simply a VERY short walk away.

2. Definitely a hypocrit. Preaches to me about food intake when I have been losing weight constantly and he does nothing about his.

I am not sure why but somehow looking at him, I feel repulsed such as the way he eats. Just by looking at him I do not want to share the food with him. Am I the only one who has a father like this or is it more common than I think?

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  • Dozis

    After reading the title of this post I was expecting to find very revolting stuff. Such as:
    Pieces of turds laying in the bathtub after he takes a shower.
    Never washes and smells like a cow's dunk.
    Smokes smelly nasty toxic cigars turning the house into a deadly gas chamber.
    Never says anything meaningful but yet he thinks of himself as the brightest most wise man on earth.
    Jacks off over the kitchen table and leaves the result over it for all to see.
    Hides all kinds of pornographic material in his basement, along with a bunch of sex toys, dildos and other stuff.. the filthiest dirtiest spookiest place I have ever been in since my last visit to the town haunted house.
    Drives his car thinking he is a pilot and there is a prize to win by risking to crash as many times as he can.
    Throws bottles filled with urine at drivers daring to surpass him. Runs over abandoned dogs and other wandering animals saying: it would have been living a wretched life without a master to care for it anyway.
    Can eat a pound of half rotten apples and still be walking around.
    His breath is foul as the foulest garbage dump you can ever have the misfortune of finding yourself in.
    Whenever something he can't handle happens, he starts complaining with a desperate tone in his voice invoking god and the virgin mary.
    Wipes his nose with a paper towel, spits in it, then places the whole thing back in his pocket. Sometimes does the same thing with actual towels in the bathroom.

    These are just a few things my own father does. So..
    You don't have any idea what's revolting.

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    • squirrelgirl

      My dad does some of those things too. I think he's so disgusting.

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  • Dozis

    Gives people fruit baskets. Tries bribing police agents. Goes in search of charity even known he is on pension. (that's a thing he always did, live as a bum and stash money away for later use, to spend it on hookers and poker games)He Is the cheapest fuck Ever! If somebody spends more than five bucks to buy some clothes, he or she is a spoiled brat. Doesn't remember anybody's birthdays. Never gave me a present. His idea of a present is a lighter and maybe a broccoli.
    Anyone who's still good looking,to him, made a deal with the devil.
    ......... Can't read, can't write..... thinks an armadillo is an exotic dish.
    .....

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    • Crudhouse

      Wow dude...are you serious

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    • SmellyDad

      Add to that Heroin addict- lied about being schizophrenic for 15 years had heron impairment- has turned my grandmother into a slave- my sister is a psycho due to him leaving us with our child abusing mother (who probably took drugs in secret) my grandmother was my only supporter but for years even though she had money had a toiletries buying obsession, turns out my sis was using her and my dad- and i would have just needed a last boost on two occasions to finish driving licence after my uncle destroyed all my belongings and kept my up all night before on exam, and my instructor took me to wrong test centre on another occasions. I eventualy went mad and eloped to tenerife- went on a drugs spree to forget with italian mafia- was offered to stay with my dad to 'sort myself out' in the uk, this is when i discovered my dad and that he is just revolting- only partly schizo from the drugs. words cannot describe- most disgusting family in living history.

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    • tehfoxyfire

      Oh my God. leave his house! What a nightmare to live under the roof of that man. Does he hit you? I had a friend when I was younger whose dad would give her hell. She was as a result a very cynical y negative person. I would try to get her to report him but she was r
      Too ashamed. This kind of abuse from a parent should NEVeR be kept secret

      I'm sorry but persons like your father should never have brought a cold into this world if they cannot be the parent they should be.

      :/

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    if you hate doing things for him the best answer is to move out and get your own place.

    then you won't have to pick things up for him or watch him eat

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  • tehfoxyfire

    My dad used to make me and my sister clean the house and serve him his food. If not he would hit us. I remember feeling such an intense uncomfortable feeling only now I realize it was anger and resentment towards him. He made life seem like I was inferior. To follow his patronizing condescending orders. It really did affect my self esteem later on in my preteen years what a waste.

    Not healthy the advice I can give you is keep an open mind and tell yourself that he is an imperfect human if he does not give you the love A.D. father should then move on. I've learned that you cannot as much as you can change someone and that's life:/

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  • InvadingPotatoLeader

    Rape him.

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  • Are you a woman? If the answer is yes then he really shouldnt be bending down for anything in the house at all, you should be taking care of the chores and cleaning that encompasses keeping the household running. You should be thankful he cares enough about you to teach you the importance of these skills so that you can know what your role and place is when you get married.

    If you are a man then its natural to not like him, male rivalry.

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