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I was hanging with this girl that I have a crush on, and she mentioned that she can be kinda racist at times. I was surprised by this, as I'd never heard her say anything racist before, and even more surprisingly, this made me like her even more. I'm not sure why... Maybe a flaw like this just makes her seem more human? But, is this normal?
Because you like her a lot, pretty much any new detail about her life would make you like her more, even if it is a negative trait, because it safisfies your curiosity to learn more about her.
Do you know if she likes you back? Her telling you that about herself may either mean that she trusts you and likes you back OR that she doesn't like you back and is trying to push you away. Or maybe none of those things. Not trying to make you uneasy about the whole thing, but it might mean SOMETHING.
I love "racist" girls. It means they've got healthy instincts. If I find out a girl has ever been with a black = immediately no longer attractive to me.
If a girl tells me she'd never do that and that she has some sort of racial beliefs = immediately more attractive.
"Racism" is hardly a flaw; to the contrary, it's natural (although I suppose it depends on what kind of "racism" it is).