Is it normal that i find less than 0,5% men attractive?

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I'm not attracted to other women either. I'm 100% straight.
The thing is most men to me are like women. I do not view them in a sexual or in a romantic way at all. Like AT ALL. Asking me to date them would be like asking me to date or have sex with a woman.
When I do feel attraction it happens in a second. I glance at a guy and all of a sudden my body feels tense I feel adrenaline and drugged by just looking at him. I want to be near him, have sex with him I feel like if he touched me I'd cum. (95% I feed this attraction towards complete strangers, I don't even know the sound of their voice but I have an urge to fuck them WTF is wrong with me) It's not random tho I'd noticed a pattern. All of them were pale, skinny, had longish hair, non masculine faces.
BTW I've never felt attraction to somebody cause of their personality. And If I had to choose between being with a guy I don't find attractive and dying a virgin I'd choose the virginity.
I honestly think there is something wrong with me and no I've never been abused.
Sorry for bad english

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  • paramore93
    6 years ago

    Normal, I'm straight too but find hardly any guys attractive ..
    I have been with guys but I have only actually enjoyed it with one guy ..
    Nowadays I'd rather just be alone, don't see the point being with somebody you don't find attractive.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    I'm the same way....

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    Have to say I can understand your concerns.

    You seem to be attracted to a very specific "type" and that attraction seems extremely intense.

    Maybe there was a pale, skinny, non-masculine looking man with longish hair in your past who originally triggered sexual attraction? It's entirely possible you don't even consciously remember the incident.

    The general rule with sexual fixations is that, as long as they don't cause problems for other people and as long as the individual with the fixation is happy with their life, then they aren't a problem. You seem to be unhappy with your feelings, so I think you'd be wise to seek counselling.

    One of the things I think is positive in your post is your comment about how you'd rather never have sex than have sex with someone you're not attracted to. Nobody should ever have sex because of social pressure or because someone else wants to have sex. It's your body, and you have the right to decide who you're intimate with.

    There is no law that makes virginity illegal above a certain age. It's your right to live and die a virgin if that's what you want. It would be sad, though, if you went through life unable to find someone you could have a sexual relationship with and feeling certain that you were missing something that others have.

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome
    6 years ago

    So you think most men look like women then you end up saying you are only attracted to men you described as totally feminine?

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    • Boojum
      6 years ago

      Yeah, I didn't get that either at first.

      I _think_ what she's saying is that she's sure she's not a lesbian, but most men might as well be women, because she's no more attracted to them than she is to women.

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