Is it normal that i find it harder to get off to men than women?

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This is a sexual question. So, I'm a girl, I've been in relationships with guys, and I've had some really close friendships with girls who I either liked them a bit more than they liked me or vice versa. And when I'm with guys, or watching porn (wow a girl who watches porn oh my?!?!) I just find it harder to get off, possibly because I like to know what my partner is feeling, and with a guy I just can't.. imagine what the pleasure would feel like. Watching lesbian porn is easier to get off to, because I understand what it feels like for those things to be done to me? I don't know, it's not so much that I want to do those things with women, but I get off because I can put myself in the situation, and I get off on the thought of other people getting off. I don't know. I mean, when I'm with a guy, I love it, I love touching guys and kissing, and I tend to like to be in control.. but seeing a hard penis does nothing for me.. I just don't understand the pleasure guys feel, and I think that's why I'm not attracted to it. Anyway, this was a stupid question, you can ignore it.

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  • disfunkshinal
    11 years ago

    I'm a girl and I'm the same way. My fiance is the love of my life and I'm far from a lesbian, but I feel almost like it's happening to me when I see a girl get eaten out or fingered or fucked. Like at that moment, I wish me and my fiance were doing those things. So I see it perfectly.

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  • MmmHmm
    11 years ago

    I think I'm the same way, but with guys since I'm a guy.

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