Is it normal that i find it hard to keep a conversation going?

Does anyone else get those awkward moments in a conversation whether in real life or messaging online when you just can't think what to say.
It sucks especially when you're trying to build a relationship with someone and you can't even talk to them without boring each other to death sometimes it's the other person being lazy to co-operate or when you both know the conversations about to fail in an awkward manner but however it happens does any one else have this problem often? I hope i'm not alone, not that i wish to curse any one but whatever, i'm rambling.

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  • Thatguy777

    Thank you! I'm dealing with this right now with this girl I REALLY like. It sucks, and I'm having a hard time here..

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    • Green_Guy

      same man, two years ago i liked this girl was really hard to talk to.
      i mean they girls say alot about how men don't understand them but they don't really try when you're trying to start a conversation with them
      we're pretty tight now but i have to say some women are hypocrites when it comes to understanding the opposite sex :L

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  • Try to speak what's on your mind. Unless it's dirty thoughts.

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  • iintolovethissite

    i have verbal diarreah (idk how to spell it lol) but any whos i wish i could shut up somtimes lol i put my foot in it far to often lol

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  • fluffycloud101

    It really does get easier especially if y'all have stuff to talk about

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  • fluffycloud101

    So totally normal there was a guy that I was talking to like a few weeks ago and he wasn't the best conversationalist but it sorta worked lol but not for long :) so now I'm free lol and we don't even talk anymore lol but ya it's completely normal for those super awkward moments when u have nothing to say

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  • joybird

    Ask questions about them and let them ramble on about themselves. If it gets awkward just move on and talk to someone else.

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    • Sweetz

      Agree, people enjoy talking about themselves.

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  • Sweetz

    say something completely random

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    • dappled

      Marshmallow Bieber stripe.

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  • Green_Guy

    sometimes I even end up signing into MSN or something and debating whether I can think of anything witty to say to them today?

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