Is it normal that i find it funny ?

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its been many times when people tell me i look good or I'm beautiful... comments are common though,,, they say I'm confident and bold , I'm careless and its fun for them to be around me and I'm caring and i know the art to impress people by my words... this all is what i agree to cuz all these things are kinda felt by me too but when they say I'm beautiful i just don't believe ,for me its a joke and i always give that poker smile because somewhere inside i deeply feel I'm not beautiful and that no one attracts to me by my appearance , my style and dressing...
there are one or two who say they love me.. but i have a feeling that they are just buttering me so that they can use me or have fun for sometime and i question to my self that my all other cousins are so beautiful if he or they don't get attracted to them then why me.,... when my friends tell me the same thing i just think they are just making me happy...

does any one else feels this way ? is it normal to think this way ... for any other thing in me I'm sure and confident about but not about this beautiful thing... tell me how to escape this feeling or how to overcome it ... :/

you just dont belive in yourself... 13
if they say they might mean it.. 3
if you find it funny then may be its true... 8
you are beautiful no one's perfect... 6
chill, love the way you are ,you're different... 12
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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Everyone has a different idea of what beautiful is. I would never say that I'm beautiful but other people have said it. Sometimes I believe them and sometimes I don't. I guess it depends on how I feel about myself that day. And I think just about everyone is beautiful in one way or another. Try not to dwell on it so much.

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  • elenaki
    11 years ago

    Let me go all pssychologist for you. The fact that all the answers you made are positive shows that you are subconsiously leaning towards the idea that the statement "you're beautiful" is actually the truth. You may not be convinced but you're headed in a good direction. I'd suggest spending time pointing out what you like about yourself to help you feel a bit more confident. Maybe you'll never believe your beautiful, but most people don't. What's important is to be confident with who you are. :)

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  • EAT_IT
    11 years ago

    I laugh at food as I eat it and then it falls out. I pick it up and eat it but I laugh again and it falls out.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      falls out of your mouth or your arss

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      • EAT_IT
        11 years ago

        Both at the same time of course! :D

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          yes of course :-)

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I understand what you mean.

    A lot of people have told me that I am cute, pretty and good looking or have a nice figure but I don't want to believe them.

    I want to believe that I am above this pop culture bullshit because I don't read into celebrity gossip and I hardly watch popular TV shows (at least ones that aren't sci-fi or comedy), but I realize that my standards for beauty have been set by the images that I see of women that pop-culture considers beautiful: perfectly symmetrical faces, clear, rosy, glowing skin, silky smooth hair, tall and long legged with perfect doll tits and perfect round asses and practically fatless physiques and I look into the mirror and see a fat, short, pale, bespectacled nerd.

    It sucks but we'll just have to get over it.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      yeah i guess we all will have to try to get over it but you couldn't be to fat are you some fat is good to have.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    :-) why does it always seem like you guys/gals are all copying each other and taking words like this word i have seen it once now im seeing it on alot of other posts "attracted" im sorry to say but almost all the story's and yours on here they sound like rimes to me when im reading them.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      Ehh, you're noticing, aren't you?

      Yeah, people really don't like using the search bar here, so stories tend to repeat because people generally don't read the instructions in the "Contribute Post" page. You'll get used to it.

      Personally, the more hateful ones annoy me in the way they repeat.

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      • o_0
        11 years ago

        no please i really didn't copied it neither i saw it on any other post....
        i think that word was the most suitable to state what was in my mind and i don't care who else used it any where else.... this word is used in so many other places so that means we shouldn't use this words or any such word any more... words are to be used and to express your thoughts ,irrespective of who else used that..

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        • NeuroNeptunian
          11 years ago

          I truly didn't understand anything you just said.

          I meant that stories generally tend to repeat here because people ask the same questions over and over again.

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          • o_0
            11 years ago

            well then ...may be you are right ... I'm not very old on this site so I have no idea about such stories it is what i go through so i just asked.. and fortunately it got approved...
            by the way i think i need your opinion more than discussing whether its a copied or common story i think that's the work of moderators... (don't mind)

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            • NeuroNeptunian
              11 years ago

              Well, if you want, you're more than welcome to scroll down and read the post I wrote you days ago... if you don't mind.

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        yeah i agree with you on that i use the search-bar tho
        i think when i first signed up to this website that i red the instructions i red half of them not all of them

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