Is it normal that i find conversations with my bf akward?

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Whenever me and my bf are talking or texting about random sexual stuff, i find that it gets akward really quickly. And it seems that he can't go one day without bringing that subject up. So does it mean that he only wants sexual stuff from me? Am i nothing but a sex toy? it kinda seems that way sometimes. is it normal that i find conversations with my bf akward? like the sexual things we talk about.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    This is a very common situation, especially if this guy is a virgin (And he sounds like it) His harmones are running wild and he may not realize he is pressuring you. You need to be straight up and tell him this makes you question if he loves you or if he's just out for sex. It's totally understandable you feel this way, but if you think he's worth it, you need to be patient and make your feelings clear.

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  • tiggysmom11
    12 years ago

    Stand your ground, a month is waaay too soon imo and if he's worth it, he'll chill out on the pressuring you. If talking about sex is awkward for you, having sex is something you're definitely not ready for.

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  • lovingmyuggs
    13 years ago

    we havnt had sex yet... but it just seems like he wants to, even though i told him no, not yet... we've been daiting for about a month.

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  • Uzzie101
    13 years ago

    He thinks your sexy. It's a good thing. Awkwardness is probably sexual tension?

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  • Jeans
    13 years ago

    Depending on how long you've been dating him, you should feel completely comfortable with him! It's not healthy to not be able to talk about sex in a relationship.

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  • howaminotmyself
    13 years ago

    Sex shouldn't be awkward. I feel awkward around some people when the subject comes up but never my partner.

    You probably shouldn't be having sex if it makes you uncomfortable just to talk about it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think its a sign that he is very comfortable with you so he opens up and talks about things he cant talk to others about.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    How long have you been dating? If it's the beginning then it's bound to happen. Though it should be more like excitement/nervousness/embarrassment when talking about sex with a boyfriend you haven't been with long. If you feel uncomfortable completely then something is wrong

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    It doesn't matter how long you have been together... If it is making you uncomfortable there is a problem. I think you are totally normal to find it awkward. I went through a similar situation with a boyfriend... I had to break up with him. It really tells a lot about the person...like the fact that they are a fing pervert! Lol the only good part of my relationship with that guy was the sex. Anyway just be careful because that situation is not ok or normal.

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