Is it normal that i finally love someone who used to love me before?

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I know the title sounds like a happy ending topic. To clear things out, it's not.

Well, I have a guy friend who is basically the perfect friend. I can trust him, he's normal, he's nice, he's supportive, we'd do anything for each other. We enjoy the same things. I have no complaints about the guy.

Problem is me, I guess I'm a shit friend. Even though I'd never betray him and I'd do anything for him as he'd do for me if we were in need, I have mental problems that prevent me from being social like he is. My problems prevent me from even being available at all anymore. He actually loved me despite my uncanny attitudes.

That was 2 years ago. Now, he seldom talk to me on Facebook, Twitter or in personal (maybe because of my bad attitude) and I accept that. Until one day he came to my house because I want to borrow his Owl City CDs and we had a good conversations about what we are up today. I suddenly felt that I finally love him but he's already on his own now.

Sorry for this freaking drama. Slap me. Btw, IIN?

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  • pacinoharmon
    10 years ago

    It's a fact that we tend to be more attracted to people if we are unsure of their feelings. Now that you think he doesn't like you in that way anymore, you are attracted to him. Just keep in touch with him, maybe he still likes you. If not, you can at least stay friends. Good luck.

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    • AvrilLavigne
      10 years ago

      Thanks for this comment, I really appreciate it :) Maybe that's the way I should do whether he likes me or not, I just want to make him feel how important he is and how I'm sorry for myself. :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Just try to stay in touch with him. Maybe you guys will both start spending more time together again like you used to.

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    • AvrilLavigne
      10 years ago

      Good comment. Yeah I think so, but it's hard to make a move coz it would be awkward for him if I suddenly turned so nice or friendly to him after 2 years.. Btw, thanks for your time to read my post :)

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        This is where I think so many good potential relationships get stopped in their tracks. Don't be afraid of being nice to him. I am sure he will be flattered. It would be worse to not do anything and then always have that twinge of regret because you did nothing. I like butt sluts.

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  • Caryopteris
    10 years ago

    I was friends with a guy like this. I tried to be logical with him and explain that he was in a fog and didn't realize we were a good match. He just wanted to play around in a non-serious way, but I was looking for something serious. Soon after I moved away, he realized his mistake and wanted me back. But I told him once I moved I couldn't afford to move back. That's life.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I guess it's time for you to make a choice. You didn't give a very detailed explanation of your problems, but if you really want to be with this guy, you are obviously going to have to fix these problems. It is a wonderful incentive to begin what will undoubtedly be a difficult task, but now you have a reason to become more social and happy.
    Good luck.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    See a therapist and get some help for your mental problems. If you need medication take it as prescribed and do your best to be your best.

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    • AvrilLavigne
      10 years ago

      Thanks for your comment. :)Ah yea but I don't think I have to see a therapist or what.. reading your comments is enough.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    10 years ago

    Maybe you will make it work.
    But could it be possible that you only like him now because he has moved on? Are you maybe a little jealous that he no longer admires you?
    In that case you'd be a better friend if you let him go.

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    • AvrilLavigne
      10 years ago

      Good question. I think I finally love him because of his great attitudes or the way he treats me despite my stupid/uncanny self. Last week when I met him, he showed the picture of a girl he loves now but I honestly didn't get jealous at all and I realized how I'm sorry to be myself. So yes, anyway, thanks for your time and comment. I really appreciate it X

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