Is it normal that i fell in love with a girl i can't be with

Hello my real name is Zachary I'm 19 years old. The day that I was born on the 16th of June I had made my first freind her name was Emma, she was my best freind from birth til we where both 8. Her and her family had left to Sweden. And I hadn't seen her until new years eve she came back to her country to visit her family and our mothered had been freinds when they where in hospital pregnant with us so when they came to her house and I laid eyes on her for the first time in 11 years I instantly fell in love with her. She was to me the smartest, funniest and most beautiful girl that I'd ever seen and we had so much in common like we where born on the same day but anyway she was just so perfect I would've asked her out but she was leaving back to Sweden in 3 days so I couldn't now it's been days since but when I close my eyes all I see is her when I dream I dream of her she's always in my head but I haven't been able to talk to any of my freinds about this because I told them that I'd never fall in love and my history with woman is rather distribing I just don't know what to do please provide help for me in the comment section.

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97% Normal
Based on 30 votes (29 yes)
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  • Kjune.frazier

    Nevermind, now I vote not normal because what you have is special! Tell her how you feel! Not in too many words, just tell her you think she's smart and funny and beautiful, and that you really admire her. Wow, isn't it amazing that out of all the people in the world, you got to grow up with her? And it's a miracle you got to meet her again. Think of it as fate giving you a little push to start talking to her :) If you really think she's the most amazing girl you've ever met, there's nothing to do but give it a shot!
    And if it doesn't work out, then it'll be like what everyone else said, it'll fade and you'll be just fine :) But before you let that happen, see if something great does work out :)

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  • Livellovelife

    Screenshots this n send it to her

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    The only thing you can do is give it time. Eventually your feelings will fade and you will move on to someone in your area.

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  • thegypsysailor

    It's just a crush, and it will pass. Sooner than later if you start dating women can have.

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