Is it normal that i fell in love with a boy whom i thought as bro?

At the beginning of my high I was young & afraid that people might get me wrong for having a boy as my friend. So, I accepted him as My Brother. But now a days I can't stop myself from falling in love with him. He is so perfect, so caring that i just feel for him. But again I'm afraid that he may get me wrong

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  • asdf90091

    It's normal. I have a close friend like that and in the back of my mind, there's always that curiosity of how it would be if we were more than friends. It would have helped if we knew what gender you were, since that will affect what the best way to handle the situation is.

    The first thing you should do is figure out what kind of love you have for him. There's relationship love, family love, friendship love, and probably others. Only the relationship love is sexual to an extent, so that's the easiest one.

    In the end, you've gotta just tell him how you feel. It sounds like you're both already close, so I don't think it would kill your friendship. Just realize he may not feel the same way. Don't be afraid to be honest, but don't get mad if he doesn't feel that way about you. He may warm up to the idea with time, but he may not.

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  • tjb

    I think you should be less concerned with this boy and more focused on brushing up on your grammar. Jesus Christ it's hardly legible!

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  • chezycheze

    It sounds normal to me. What do you mean by "he may get me wrong". What would he get wrong?

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  • KeddersPrincess

    As long as he's not your real brother.

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  • jayonk

    Need some clarity...

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