Is it normal that i feel weird about it?

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The other night, my boyfriend, his male friend, his girlfriend and i went out and this girl is really cute and bubbly and stuff. But i feel like she is pretty inappropriate. When we went out we were sweaty and it was cold and she said something like ,,ah i need to throw on jacket, im sweaty'' than my boyfriend said something like,, sweaty women are the worst'' and she was like ,,no they're the best cause they're wet'' an they started laughing, he seemed so happy ahaah and i was like what the hell. And whole night he was looking at her all smiley. He laughed at everything she said, and if i'd say something that she said, he wouldnt laugh. I just felt awful.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    She sounds pretty skanky. I hate people who flirt shamelessly with other people's partners, especially if the inappropriate, shameless person is already in a relationship. Ugh, she just sounds nasty. Yeah, I'd be like don't bring that skank bitch around again!

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    • younglady987
      7 years ago

      ahh i know and we will hang out soon for sure! like next weekend we are going to the club opening and im like ugh i dont even wanna bother, she's pretty flirtatious, especially when she's drunk and my boyfriend seems to like that lol

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Have you tried talking to him about this? Maybe ya'll need to set down some ground rules? I would certainly prefer that each couple ride in separate cars to the partying event or venue. I also think if and when that skank bitch gets progressively drunker that ya'll ought to take ya'll's leave. He shouldn't worry about being polite or not hurting that bitch's feelings. You and your feelings regarding all of this should be what's most important to him!

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        • younglady987
          7 years ago

          i still didnt talk to him...every time i try to talk to him about stuff like this(it happened maybe 3 times in 4 years) he is like,, wtf is wrong with you? you're tripping'' she's innapropriate when she's sober too and he's laughing at all of her stupidness. i'm afraid to tell him cause it might feel awkward next time when we're all together but to be honest i dont even wanna be with him anymore..i feel like next time when he is with some bubbly girls and im not there, god knows what could happen between them

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago

            He doesn't sound like much of a catch, I'd be inclined to throw his sorry ass back in the polluted waters from which he came.

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            • younglady987
              7 years ago

              hahahahhh she is actually not pretty but she acts cute and stuff, she's got braces and shit and is overall not a cute girl...but so flirtatious fuck

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          • younglady987
            7 years ago

            oh and she said ,,i like to bite when im drunk'' and was looking at him and he was looking at her and laughing and made a happy face...i dont know how i didnt kill her that nigh lol

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            • RoseIsabella
              7 years ago

              Hopefully, she'll fall flat on her ugly face, and knock out some of her teeth. Even if she's not ugly on the outside she's hideous on the inside!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Remember it takes two to tango and it looks like the sweaty one is trying for a double header if you know what i mean.

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    • younglady987
      7 years ago

      hahah you're right and last year around this time i found some messages in his inbox saying he will bang his friend in the gyms shower cabin and he was like begging me to stay saying its not true blabla..so i already know he's prone to stuff like that

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      • Terence_the_viking
        7 years ago

        You need to drop him like a sack of shit.

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        • RoseIsabella
          7 years ago

          You are awesome!

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        • younglady987
          7 years ago

          ahhahh you're the best

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Yeah, that's a big old red flag right there, girl! You deserve so much better!

        For all the haters out there I say the same thing to guys who have girls who look like they're trying to cheat. I don't care if the person(s) are male, female, gay, straight, trans or whatever cheating is always wrong and there's no excuse for cheating. If a relationship isn't working the persons need to either work on it in couples therapy or leave the relationship. Neither option is an easy road, but decent and honorable isn't easy!

        Okay girl, sorry for my rant. Don't ignore the red flags, and don't take no shit! You ain't gotta throw down and kick anyone's ass, but I certainly would understand if you wanted to do so. My first ex husband cheated on me with a skank bitch from his work. The whole mess snuck up on me, cause I ignored the signs. I did even confront him about his so called "friend", but of course he denied anything. I swear Stephen King and Clive Barker would have loved to have tapped into my dark thoughts after I found out about that bitch. It wasn't an easy road, but I'm better now. I think it's better to catch the piece of shit cheater early on and be the one to call the shots, and terminate the relationship. Guard your self esteem and self respect, sister, because those ain't thangs you can buy down at the store. Know that you are a precious child of God, that he loves you always, even and especially when other human beings do, and will, let you down. Love and respect yourself and others, then know that you deserve the same in return. I wish you all the best!

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    7 years ago

    mebbe he likes her better cause yallre such an obviously borin prude

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    • younglady987
      7 years ago

      but she's his best friend's girlfriend...i don't know is it normalto talk like that lol. not only that but he was looking at her so much...we're together for 4 years now...maybe he's bored but he tells me he loves me all the time and shows it. i just hate that he showed affection towards her

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        So he's not allowed to laugh with someone else?

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        • younglady987
          7 years ago

          of course he is..they had vulgar conversation and he was looking at her all night and smiling at her and stuff

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          • Ellenna
            7 years ago

            Sounds like flirting to me. Vulgar is a strangely oldfashioned term: are you fundamentalist christian or something?

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            • younglady987
              7 years ago

              english is not my first language so i'm sorry for my oldfashioned terms...yes it sounds like flirting to me too

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  • miskris
    7 years ago

    Out of line, in my opinion. Sounds like that girl is looking for some attention and your boyfriend is giving it to her. It's not good to jump to conclusions, maybe bring it up as a concern and listen to his side?

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    • younglady987
      7 years ago

      I definitelly will. He has some cousins at home these few days so i dont want to talk about it but ill ask him when theyre gone. I just feel like im not getting enough attention from him in general, and now this...like i didnt even know he can be that smiley around the girl lol. Thank you :)

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      • miskris
        7 years ago

        Np! I hope everything works out.

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  • younglady987
    7 years ago

    i mean i dont know howshould i feel really...im feeling uncomfortable now. im asking for help haha

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