Is it normal that i feel unsure about my boyfriend?

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A guy asked me out about a week ago the first time I met him in person and I said yes because we had been talking for a while and I knew he was really nice and I think he's really attractive. My parents and friends really like him and he has so far been the sweetest boyfriend I've ever had. He spends money on me, compliments me, posts pictures of me, ect. I've always wanted a relationship like this but for some reason I feel weird about it and kind of uncomfterble. I couldn't ask for anything else in a guy so I don't know why I feel this way he's everything I've ever dreamed of. Maybe I'm just not ready? And also, what do I do? Should I stay in the relationship?

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  • donotmockme
    9 years ago

    If you feel weird and uncomfortable, he may not be the guy for you. Maybe he gives you what you want but not what you fully need.

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    You should have felt something for him by now... I think it's most fair to him to end it before he develops more feelings for you than he already have.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Something similar happened to me a long time ago with my first boyfriend. He was amazing, fun, funny, really cute, outgoing, etc. The first few weeks I had felt uncomfortable and weird. I think that it was because I was not use to anything like that. I mean he was my first boyfriend. But I just didn't feel right. There were many times when he would come over to my house and ask for me. My mom would go in my room and tell me that he was here. I would tell her to tell him that I left or that I wasn't there. Lol. It was a little messed up. I just didn't want to see him. But I did anyways. So after a few weeks, that went away. He was pretty much everything I wanted like you said. He treated me right, took pictures, took me out and all that. But it had just felt so weird. Like I said, it went away. I just had to get use to it I guess. I am glad that I stayed with him because our relationship was pretty koo. Even though we broke up after a year or so. It was worth it. But anywho, I think that you should maybe stay for another few weeks with him and see how it goes. If you still feel the same, then just leave him I guess. Good luck!

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  • izatar97
    9 years ago

    If you feel uncomfortable, then end it. Do what seems healthy and what will make you happy. Don't worry about what other people say. If you think that there's a chance your feelings could change, then give it a shot, but don't feel pressured to stay in a relationship just because he's doing all the right things. What really matters is how you feel.

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