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So... I like this guy and have since July... I don't think I've ever felt this way for anyone he makes me so happy! Only problem is, my mom doesn't like him. I don't know what to do because I seriously think I'm in love with him.. But I feel bad for my mom not liking him :/ he didn't do anything wrong! :/ what can I do?? Or should I do:/
Do you live on ur own or at home? Respect your mom and listen to her.if you are young and living at home or in school don't worry about falling in love.love yourself.get education,job and home and then worry about love.chances are it won't last.its just the way it is.relationships take work ....a lot of hard work after all the newness is worn off.it won't help if your mom doesn't like him.I am sorry to be so blunt but always pick family over bf or gf....family normally around longer unless ur in a dysfunctional family and if that's the case we are prob related.
You must know why your mom doesn't like him after all these months!
She may have good reason if he's done anything illegal and she thinks he may drag you down, but you're convinced you'll change him. Then you are wrong!!
But - if he's a 100% decent guy, then he may not be the man for her, but he may suit your personality.
Think about her reasons before you start to sneak about behind her back. She has many years of experience behind her and only wants the best for you.
Do you know why your mum dislikes him? She might be being deliberately contrary, or she might have genuine concerns. Try to see things from her side, and try and convince her, without starting an argument, that he is a good guy.
If your mum only has stupid, trivial concerns like how he dresses, "he isn't good enough for you" etc., just see him anyway behind your mum's back.
Your mom probably doesn't like him for a reason, but on the other hand you can't live your life based on exactly what your parents want. Maybe try dating him but keep your mom's concerns in mind, she very well may be be right! She might be seeing something that you don't, since your feelings for him are all new and exciting.