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Is it normal to feel like if I ever got into a serious relationship with a guy and he found out I had stretch marks on my hips? I'm alittle afraid of him not liking me the way I am. That's my worst insecurity. So guys, what do you think of stretch marks?
| I don't mind if you have stretch marks. | 22 | |
| They don't bother me. | 13 | |
| Everyone has their flaws, doesn't mean you aren't good enough. | 36 | |
| No, I don't like it. | 7 |
To be honest, and men, feel free to oppose, women have much higher standards for themselves, physically, than men do.
For most men, when they decide that they are attracted to you and they want you, something stupid like stretch marks or skin discoloration or that kind of shit might not even register on their radar as significant if it does at all. Now if those stretch marks are necrotic or have bleeding sores on them, different story, but most men that I know don't give much of a damn. If they like her and she's attractive to them, they'll fuck her. Hell, sometimes they'll fuck her regardless.
My point is that very few men give a shit and if your personality is good enough, your looks are at least decent and you don't have horrible taste in company, you probably won't deal with many of those.
You're in danger of splitting the vote on your first three options! Looking at the count so far though, I reckon you'll do fine :)
I'm a guy, and I have a couple of tiny stretch marks on my upper thighs, must've got them when I grew. I like them, and anyone who wants to be with me had better like them too - they're part of me! That's the attitude you should have.
(BTW - imagine the stretch marks Bruce Banner must have..!)
No one has a flawless body. No one. You should never hold youself to that high a standard.
I have noticed that flaws make a naked body look more naked,and that's kind of exciting in a way. Models look like mannequins, and it can look kind of generic and uninteresting.