Is it normal that i feel this way about my own father?

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Sometimes i want to shoot him. And then, sometimes i want to smash his head in. Why? Because I hate when he looks at me. Even though i am 18 (you can still live with your parents when you are 18.)and can move out, I have my reasons. I just dislike his face, his Ora, his fakeness. and most of all, HIM. I don't think i have ever hated someone until I hated my dad. grrrr!!!!! Tell me, Is this Normal?

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  • robbieforgotpw
    11 years ago

    Need reasons why.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    "Inappropriate" & "Sick", how so?

    If he's abusing you, you need to get away from him, tell someone and get some therapy to help you deal with what he's "done".

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  • Whoarewe
    11 years ago

    I feel the same way about my father, and I'm 18 too. I think it's normal if you know the reasons why you feel that way..I know I have my reasons.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    This is really weird.

    You know, I'm known to be an unnaturally, frighteningly angry person and tbh, even I don't understand where you're coming from. You profess a violent hatred of your father and can't even give a decent answer as to why.

    Not normal.

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    • chewy
      11 years ago

      Hi :D

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Depends, why do you hate your Dad?

    My father was violent towards my sister and I am often I have vivid flashbacks. I hate him because of the effects of his abuse that I will most likely live with for the rest of my life. I feel justified in not caring for him.

    And who is Ora?

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    • Mmmpfh
      11 years ago

      And justified you are.
      I think buy Ora she means aura.

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    • topper33
      11 years ago

      theres the ques. WHY?

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  • jermath35
    11 years ago

    Hate my dad he's a racist-motorcycle driver! He even killed one of his girlfriend accidently psssh fucking prick

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    • bristexai
      11 years ago

      What is a racist-motorcycle?

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      • Unimportant
        11 years ago

        Easy. It's a motorcycle, which only allows white people to drive it; if black, asian or other non-white people want to ride it, it throws them right off.

        I used to have one of those...

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        • VioletTrees
          11 years ago

          Not to be confused with a racist-scooter, which is a scooter that posts racist caricatures online.

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        • Horrez
          11 years ago

          He needs his ass beat for real.

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    aura*
    There has got to be a deeper reason for why you hate your father so much. I'd see a therapist.

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  • Seustewart
    11 years ago

    Sounds like the dad may be a diddler

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  • MissyLeyneous
    11 years ago

    Has he done anything to you that would be considered illegal? You said he was "sick" and you didn't want to explain exactly why it was that you hate him. Has he "hurt" you in any way? If so, I recommend that you find someone else to talk to whether it is a counselor, a teacher, a family member or just someone you trust. If he's hurting you, you need out of there, NOW. Don't put that off, do it.

    I know, I've been hurt before.

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago

      This. It seems like everybody's assuming there's no reason, but I find "I hate it when he looks at me" highly suspicious.

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      • MissyLeyneous
        11 years ago

        Exactly my point. Apparently you know what I mean by "hurt". :/

        Statistics (for what they're worth) show that 1 out of 4 girls in the U.S. are "hurt" at some point in their childhood.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Yes, And trust me I have tried but like, It's not easy. I really have no other ways, Like ,if you don't mind me asking ,what did you do?

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      • MissyLeyneous
        11 years ago

        You just DO IT, it's not that hard. And if you have to talk to a COP then so be it! Do you have a job or can you even leave the house? If you can, do it then! This shit can't wait just because you "can't" do it. Please PLEASE don't wait to do this. Get over your fear and do it!

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  • Dad
    11 years ago

    Son, lets just say it was both of our faults.
    Now give me a hug.

    You weren't a mistake, we got it wrong :D

    Look it at this way, your half of your Dad, its just that you got the bad half.

    What you're saying is not bad, its bad when you say OMG, I've turned into my father!

    Would YOU marry your Mom? Then shutup.

    Is now a good time to say you may have been adopted?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Ok dude, you are making no sense Right now, is it because your names "dad" that you are saying this right now? You are...confusing me a little

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      • Dad
        11 years ago

        Yes that's why.
        It was just a little joke, you're also half your Mother ;)

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    Why I hate him. Because....He is sick. He does really inappropriate things and then turns everyone i know against me so they wont listen to me. some people do not even know me and they go by what he says. and they distance themselves away from me.I did not write the reason because it hard, awkward and slightly painful.

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago

      What kind of inappropriate things? Abusive things, or just annoying things?

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        11 years ago

        I guess it is. I mean most people call it that, I just want him to look at me like I am his daughter. Not other shit.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      You're obviously just irritated that he proved you wrong in an argument.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        11 years ago

        In what way can he prove me wrong? There is no argument nor is there a discussion, He does not even know that i feel this way about him.He sort of thinks we are best friends ,but we are not at all.

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          Sorry, was just doing an experiment.

          In that case, I think he has more of a reason to dislike you than the other way around.

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  • jucedaguy
    11 years ago

    Pre sure he sniff your panties too.

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    • Seustewart
      11 years ago

      You are fucking hilarious! Lol

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  • AquaTurtle
    11 years ago

    Are you really 18? Most people go through this stage at 15. Their parents become these horrible, evil people who can do nothing right.
    If you need to move out, move. Otherwise, don't complain about a situation you can change.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I could, but where would I go? It's no that easy to find a job, He won't give me my damn information and asking him, well, I have tried. Honestly, If I had gotten a job this "ish" wouldn't have even been written. I wouldn't have had to waste my time.I have tried everything. When you come up with something better I would really love to know. (Not trying to sound like Bitch or anything, that's just the way I type, hopefully it didn't.)

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  • MrsEdGein
    7 years ago

    I still live with my parents and am not fond of my father either because he's an annoying old git but I've never had thoughts of harming him.

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  • hermione
    11 years ago

    tell him how you feel and see what he has to say and tell him why, it might just make you feel better.

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  • porital12
    11 years ago

    You know what you need? A pot full of grits.HOT GRITS. SO when your dad comes home and tries to abuse you again, LET HIM HAVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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