Is it normal that i feel this way about my guy best friend?

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So I'm a girl and me and this guy have been friends for a while and we have liked each other at the same time but when he liked me I didn't like him and vise versa.

So couple weeks ago he broke up with his gf and I was really happy because I was going through a phase where I liked him a lot. And i was getting vibes that he liked me too. But recently (about 1 week ago) he asked out this other girl. And I just completely broke down.

Now he tells me I'm his best friend and he's my best friend too, but I'm really hurt on the inside and now I don't even know how I feel about him.... I guess I would rather have him as a friend then not a friend at all, but I was just wondering... Is it normal that he did this to me/I feel this way?

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Very normal. Don't think anything about it. Be his friend. He will have other friends and you should too.

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  • carterjm4
    12 years ago

    keep him in the friend zone until both of you guys are ready.

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  • Buhhhrito
    12 years ago

    I don't know if you consider yourself to be a "classic" kind of girl (i.e. guy asks out the girl), but if you have genuine feelings for him, do something about it.

    From what you said, there's some kind of attraction on both sides. Why not act on it? Friends make the best partners.

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  • Rufus
    12 years ago

    It means it's time to go on a diet.

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