Is it normal that i feel this way

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Hi.. I'm in my 30s and been married for 12 years with 2 kids.. About 5 years ago I met my cousin and we've both been madly in love with eachother since then.. Everything about us is perfect. We want to do everything together and everything together is SO PERFECT! Initially I resisted what I was feeling for him and asked him to move on.. He started dating some girl about a year and a half ago.. During this time he's come to visit me twice and I realized I can no longer fight what I feel for him and told him so.. I know he's loved me since day one.. He's now broken up with his gf.. Now we're both certain that we cannot be away from eachother anymore.. Our families will not accept us.. I love my children to bits but I also love my cousin just as much.. My husband is an excellent father to our children and I've considered leaving them behind and running away with my cousin so we can be together for the rest of our life.. I don't know what to do..

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Based on 49 votes (14 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Both my wives left the children with me when they split. This is quite rare and I've often wondered how it was that I chose to marry two women who could do this.
    I think you are being incredibly selfish and cruel to put yourself above the needs of a family which you have created and a marriage to which you have made vows. You have in no way implied that your husband deserves this from you, and there is no way you can justify leaving your children. Your happiness is NOT paramount in this case.
    The only proper thing for you to do is fulfill your obligations to your family until your children are grown and then, if you still want to leave your husband for the incestuous relationship with your cousin, well, so be it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Wtf jerry springer shit is this?

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    No simple answers for your problem, everyone suffers no matter the decision you make, so make the right one that leads to less suffering for all. Good luck with your choices

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  • Faceless
    10 years ago

    Perfect eh? Do you do anal?

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  • PAjunebugg
    10 years ago

    Don't do it. You'll regret it later. You will leave a path of destruction your family will never heal from.

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  • pixie_dust
    9 years ago

    U guys fuct when u were teens?

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  • zenparadox
    10 years ago

    I dissaprove. But I might sympathize more if you'd said my cousin and I and my children run away together as in where no one knows you, but you didn't say that so its impossible for me to imagine choosing any man let alone a cousin over my kids, maybe you are looking for a way or reason to self destruct or to leave your marriage or kids not related to your cousin - I don't know, but you asked if its normal (of course not)

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  • sassychick
    10 years ago

    @RoseIsabella.. We're not from the US

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    What state are ya'll from?

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      deep south i imagine

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