Is it normal that i feel this way?

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i am in a happy relationship and love my boyfriend. but he has a terrible past and slept with more women than you can keep count of before me. he was a player and cheated on every girl he was with. he thinks i have no clue about any of this but i know better. also, is it normal for me to feel nothing makes me different from the other girls he has played in the past and there is a good chance the same will happen to me behind my back? i would never cheat on him because i am better than that, but how am i to be sure he won't/is not fooling around with other girls?

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Based on 28 votes (21 yes)
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  • pambambam
    11 years ago

    youre the next one on his check list ..

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Maybe you should reconsider the relationship if its such a worry. It seems like an unnecessary stress to me.

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  • plum6
    11 years ago

    ofcourse this is normal. I am a guy and had the same thing with my gf, but the other way around ;) I was even nervous about having sex at first because I thought I wouldn't be able to live up to her previous experiences. I can guarantee you that this feeling will fade over time. The longer you are together the more you will start feeling like he is really 'yours', and at one point the past will stop being an issue completely.

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    • youwillneverknow.
      11 years ago

      I hope so. (: it seems to be fading from my mind already. Not enough room for negative thoughts with all the love i have for him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Well I was like that, but the girl i'm with now is just great and it helps me think only of her. I still get tempted, but I don't act.

    Just treat him right and hope he does the same, there's no full proof way of ever knowing sadly.

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    • dirtybirdy
      11 years ago

      How considerate of you. Try not to corrupt the poor thing too much. At least let her finish high school first ok. Haha.....? I'm going now. Don't want to be late for bingo with my geriatric friends.

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Lol she's 22, and not stupid thank god. Most of my girlfriends (bar one) were as thick as a fridge wrapped in foam.

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        • dirtybirdy
          11 years ago

          Oh she's not a teenager?? That's good. Be a good kitty to her. But if she gives you any shit i'd be more than happy to come down there and kick her ass for you :p cus ya know 32 is waaay better than 22. Ok I'm sure that's a lie Haha brat!!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Well unless you see it with your own eyes you wont.

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