Is it normal that i feel that my wife is cheating?
i'm married to my wife since 12 years, i'm 45 she's 38. i have a bad feelings that she is in love with someone else. i feel she care less about me and about my needs. she don't care what i say to her and even on all the gifts i bring to her. two days ago she called me to tell me that she's not in the office coz she has work outside "searching an apartement for her boss invites" something very weird since her job is to handle the office needs. i called her after a while to check if she can pass have lunch with me since she's out the office. she didn't answer me. after 30 mnts she called me whispering on the phone that she can't talk since she's very busy. i decide to rent a car and follow her. after 2 hours of sms-ing her and searching arround i could locate her outside the city since she informed me through sms that she's searching for a cheep apartment. she wasn't expected that i was following her. after two hours i found her car near a hotel o the way to moutains. i wait arround 1 hour more she get out from the hotel with a young man and drive way back. i try to call her she didn't answer and send me a message that she is busy. i asked if she will pass to pick me up from work. she reply by no coz she still have work to do in the office. after 30 mnts of drive, she drop the guy near her office and called me to tell me that she is very tiered and she's on the way back to home to rest. i didn't tell her that i was behind her in the car but as well i'm not sure that she was cheating since i don't have any prouf.