Is it normal that i feel strong love towards my boyfriend even though.

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Even though he's super shy and It bother me about him?

I'm very outgoing and I don't know why I'm with a shy guy, but he really loves me and I love him, but he's often socially awkward because of this and it bothers me about him a lot. I often have it in the back of my head like maybe I should break up with him for this, but I do love his heart and personality. He's very kind and honest and it's rare to find that in a guy. He never lies at all only if he's trying to be sweet like if I make something really bad, he will tell me it came out perfect, lol.

Anyway, people think I'm weird because he's shy and they often think I am shy too and this bugs me.

I sometimes have to approach people because he is too afraid and this is really bothersome, but he's so kind to me.

What do I do?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If I may be honest, if you care more of what others think of you, than what the guy (whom you love and who love you) think of you, I hope for his sake you break up with him

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  • ialcin
    12 years ago

    break up.. u obviously dont deserve someone like him ...
    its a shame that nice guys like him fall for selfcentered bitches like u

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  • Devindd
    14 years ago

    Your right, you don't find this in a man often. I would keep with him. Because if you don't, there will be plenty of other women that will go out with him, and you will regret it

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  • 4theloveofdez
    12 years ago

    Nobody's perfect

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  • scarycherry
    14 years ago

    Finally! Someone who understands! I am very outgoing and me and my boyfriend have this same problem. I however have figured out the solution. opposites attract, and my man, like yours, has really good qualities that alot of guys out there dont have. I would rather deal with this bothersome small issues that have to find someone else who may never measure up to the sweet, and overall wonderful man that my boyfriend is. My advice to you is that if your guy is important to you that you will work through it together and help him work on it. If you think that his qualities are worth sacrificing and you would be happier otherwise than break up with him but realize what your giving up in the process.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    if you find a good person and shyness is your only complaint, i say stay with him. maybe you can talk to him like starry suggests and see if you can help him break out of his shell.

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  • StarrySkies
    14 years ago

    woah this is totally my situation with my boyfriend. i often have to explain to my friends that he's just really shy and that he has nothing against them, coz he won't even try to smile or look approachable or anything!

    instead of just leaving him try talking with him about it. he seems willing to do anything for you so just see if he's willing to be less shy... good luck!

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