Is it normal that i feel sorry for women for their bodies?

I guess mainly it just seems like large breasts, periods and child birth would all really suck. I mean I am not trying to say its bad to be a woman but it seems like they have a lot more problems physically then men have to deal with. I am a sporty guy and it seems like having breasts would interfere with sport and being smaller(on average) would mean you would have to eat a lot less to stay thin. Just seems like a raw deal all round.

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  • randomjelly

    We both have our issues but I must say that a monthly menstrual is a bitch :-)

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  • You're sympathy for the female gender is appreciated. :)

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  • thewoeman

    Super big breasts can cause back problems eventually and a lot of the girls I know seem to feel pressured to want to be bigger there, so that must suck. And I've been noticing it now more than ever that weight really does play a giant role in a woman's life.
    Other than bleeding for like a week and having the babies though, most of the things that suck about it seem to be from society.

    But, in some ways, women are at an advantage too. They live longer and until recently, women never inherited hemophilia. The only reason a couple have nowadays is because the men with it can finally live a while longer than before. I've also heard that women have a higher tolerance for pain, with childbirth and all.

    Both sides have their advantages and disadvantages, I suppose. But, I'm going to say it's normal that you feel sorry for women. Actually, it's pretty nice that you're trying to look at things from their side. It makes me feel like a bad person that I've never really taken it into consideration until just now.

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  • waakus

    We men have our own problems. We have testicles out in the open that are so fragile, a swift ball or kick to the crotch disables us for several minutes. We are always horny and get irritable if we don`t get laid or masturbate for a while. The converse of women eating less is men have to spend more on food to stay nourished. We die earlier than women. We are at higher risk for cancer and other diseases.

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    • DaydreamBeliever

      "We are always horny and get irritable if we don`t get laid or masturbate for a while."

      We women get that, too. :)

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      • Speak for yourself, lady. Why do some alleged females on this site always make testimonies about women collectively like:"we" like to masturbate for hours and hours, or "we" get real horny all the time or "we" like to expose ourselves in public places? All women are NOT the same, sweetie.

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        • Its_Called_Love

          Hey, there is a difference between a healthy sex drive and publicly exposing yourself. I personally enjoy having my fun and get grumpy after a while if I'm without. But I don't think that by any mean I'm into "freaky" stuff.

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    • If you didn't know, Women, when getting pregnant, are at high risk for developing diabetes. This is due to the fast weight gain, triggering diabetes.
      Did you also know, that a pregnancy can happen in our tubes, without moving to the uterus? In time that tube will burst, causing internal bleeding... AND possibly death?
      If you only knew, sir.

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  • flavorofmadness

    I love being a woman. But thanks for being compassionate, it's nice to know some guys get us. My least favorite thing about being a girl is the fact that sexism is still alive and well. People are just less outspoke about it.

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  • BoredGuy

    being a man, i truly can understand the power of pussy. If i was a woman knowing what i know now, i would have conquered the world, using just my pussy.

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  • TyLee

    Yeah you have a good point. But if you are a toned woman than breasts don't really get in the way. I run and exercise to stay in shape and I have a c cup which is perfect for me (i have a small body frame and I'm 5"4) but I assume if the woman is fat than they would get in the way... So would their fat lol

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  • Karpfen

    Breasts.... Mh i would touch em the whole day, so i couldnt work xD so yeah disadvantage :D

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  • Gardenia

    I see your point of view. But woman are strong enough to endure a lot of physical pain. Having boobs suck at times, but their AWESOME. Periods suck! So yeah... Your right about that. Child birth is my most painful experience, but I feel lucky that was able to do that for my beautiful daughter. Totally worth the pain:)

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  • Faceless

    As far as Im concerned the only thing beautiful women ever have to do is get up in the morning.

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    • --12Jones

      hahaha yeah

      all they gotta do is show some skin an jus find a rich successful guy to leach on.

      (everybody) please do not reply with an angry rant on how much of a sexist i am.... this was a joke

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  • Shrunk

    don't feel sorry woman are lucky to have the more attractive body i think :D
    and besides, women were designed to have to deal with all that stuff, and are used to it by now. its nice of you to think about this tho, maybe you appreciate more all the women who are doing just fine despite all those troubles

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  • wigsplitz

    I always tell my husband how ridiculous I'd feel with that male "junk" swingin' around. Besides, men get bald by the time they're 30, they grow hair out of everyplace BUT their heads and they're slaves to their sex drive. Men have to try to pick up women, women just have to show up. Women can get men to help them, ask for directions and get you guys to do all the heavy lifting....if we want to.

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  • IDontAskMuch

    One if the things I hate about being a woman is after going through all that pain of giving birth and breastfeeding to give your baby the best start in life ( in my case anyway have now lost my boobs). I have never had a complex about them until now and it makes me feel less of a woman for losing them and my husband being a boob man makes it even worse for me. I know boobs ain't got a personality but I miss mine.

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  • CountryRoads

    Agreed that evolution stops caring when we have babies. I mean...our life span used to be in the 40s. We are animals, once we have babies, we basically are a waste of space (biologically)
    And I'm still alive...I have big boobs and periods. You just deal with it. Guess we are stronger than men...and at least my hair will still look good in my 30s.

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  • SilverSable

    You can't sit back & feel sorry for something with which you have absolutely no experience. Women's bodies are not to be pitied just because you can't begin to understand how she can catch a ball comfortably. Both sexes have their positives & negatives.

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    • SuperBenzid

      So by SilverSables logic I can't feel sorry for cancer patients because I have never had cancer. Did you forget your brain this morning? Your speaking english but your not making any sense.

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  • chewy

    are you kidding big tits? no thats a positive periods no throwing up no all the work yes that most suck

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  • im really really athletic too, but breasts so come in handy... we get those outragous stares when we go running haha. im tired of my period haha but its only once a month for the rest of my life... but i like being a woman because we have more tender spots to touch during sex and stuff hahaha

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  • Darkoil

    This isn't ment to sound sexist in anyway but in human development: biology of aging my lecturer (who is a women btw) actually stated that men are built more superiorly than women and women drew the short straw, the menopause being a big fuck up in the design of women and makes you age rapidly.

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    • dappled

      Your lecturer is short-sighted. Every species on this planet evolved to continue the species. After that time of our lives, evolution doesn't care what happens to us (because we've already done our bit in natural selection and the continuance of ourselves).

      The menopause is irrelevant, as is prostate cancer, Alzheimer's, or anything else that happens later in life. There is no "fuck up" in the design of women because there is no design in anyone at all who has passed the age of passing their genes on.

      Evolution stops caring when you stop having children.

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      • RoseIsabella

        That's really depressing.

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      • "Evolution" better care if you've got a 60 year old woman who becomes President of the United States and has the ability to call for World War III. Women are NOT just a pair of ovaries.

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    • howaminotmyself

      This sounds like a bunch of propaganda bullshit. Who benefits from making woman feel old? Lets convince them they are "aging" so we can sell them stuff to reverse the effects.

      I don't buy it. Woman have always had a longer life span than men.

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  • poison_gummybears

    that's really nice that you have compassion:) pmsing really is a bitch, i wish my damn boyfriend thought like you, instead of condeming himself to sleep on the damn sofa when my time comes out of fear!

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  • melbyface

    boom. you got it dude.

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  • jessielovee

    Having huge boobs like me hurts sometimes when running /: Also, it's really annoying when you're talking to a guy and all he does is stare at them! Periods are horrible -_-

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  • (:sweet:)

    A lot of ppl like women and its not as bad as it sounds we just deal with it unlike some of u guys who would just die. Being awoman is beautiful and at least we dont have some junk hangin around between our legs! Btw im young and strait hope that this didnt make me sound old haha:/

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  • slytheringirl

    That's sweet

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  • pandabear094

    Thank you for feeling for us :) you're sweet. Lol because it is harder than guys job. Imagine quitting sports for 9 months to carry a baby.

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  • rockerlocker

    well i would know its not hard (to me)

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  • Well we all have periods but u can take birth control for less and we dbt have to worry for a baby but when we do get preggy we can take pain relievers and if you know how to care for your body your girlfriends will stay in shape along with your body and most girls play sports just like guys like i play soccer bball football softball volleyball swim roller blade run and figure skate and its really fun

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  • Well not all women have big breasts and childbirth only happens if you want it too usually.

    As for periods, yeah, they are the worst part about it but painkillers and teeth gritting help me a lot lol

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  • Darkoil

    Just to clarify it isn't my lecturer who made this up on the spot but a scientific fact and when i say age i mean women start to 'look' like they age faster because of the raapid decrease in estrogen and progesterone that is readily available. And as well talking about natural selection and evolution, please in which part of our fucked up world is this going to happen nowadays?

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    • dappled

      We may be talking at cross purposes. Setting aside religion, the only "design" in humans is that which perpetuates the species. That's what evolution is.

      Let's say there was a gene which diminished someone's quality of life at the age of 60. Because they've had their children before this point, the gene never gets evolved out because natural selection isn't taking account of the gene.

      These genes exist for men and women but haven't been designed "in". They've just never been designed "out". This is what I was getting at. They're not part of any design.

      I probably didn't explain it too well initially.

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      • Darkoil

        Yeah sorry man its the way i worded it that was poo, i didn't mean 'design' literally.

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