Is it normal that i feel sorry for american guys?

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So i have a few american guy friends who i met when i visited the states, and have a lots of friends who i've met online. Basically , everyone of them complains how it's so hard to get a girlfriend in America. How they are all stuck up bitches who are too self-absorbed and ignore men most of the time. Are american women really that complicated? Or are these guys just a bunch of losers? They seem to be nice guys, with careers, looks and intelligence.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    I'm a non-American who has dated American women (one for five years). They're no different than anyone else.

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  • wigsplitz
    11 years ago

    I dunno, I see PLENTY of losers with wives, gf's, baby mommas, etc. It's not hard to find a girlfriend, it just may be hard to find the RIGHT one, but that's not an exclusively American problem. And whose fault it is is debatable, maybe the guys standards are too high for his worth, or maybe he's looking in the wrong places, or maybe he is a major loser with the ladies, but OK in life in general. Some people just don't have the ability to even approach a woman, or have a really, really BAD approach that sends girls running.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    No that is just the typical Male American attitude. Men get butt-hurt when the girl they are trying to impress does not return the feelings. They make up stuff like the "Friend-zone" and the "nice guy ideals" and expect everyone they like to instantly fall in love with them.

    They do not understand that no matter how nice you are NOT EVERYONE IS GOING TO DATE YOU. Some women just want to be friends and you just have to deal with it. Yes, best friends falling in love has happened before. It does not mean being a girls Best friend for long enough is going to make her eventually fall in love with you.

    Though yes if there is a situation where the chick dates nothing but dicks and has a perfectly nice guy that like it makes sense to go with that guy. Though in this situation its saying she is already looking for someone to date period.

    Most men get angry when the girl just is not interested in anyone at the moment. If they are not interested they become enraged and say "What a bitch". Well no maybe she just isn't interested. So stop harassing her and try someone else. Its a really simple concept.

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  • derpington
    11 years ago

    As an american female..i agree...im not stuck up and bitchy because im quiet and conserved so i have nothing ignorant to say...i do see terrible woman out in america today that make me feel terrible about my gender:( its disappointing..i wish they all said and did nicer things instead of the shitty and mean things they do.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Depending on what your looking for, and what region of the US you live in, American girls can be some of the easiest! Where I live there are "easy girls" but there are also plenty of down to earth grounded girls looking for a good guy as well.

    I have never had an issue getting girls where i'm from (Missouri). But I haven't tried it much in any coastal cities.

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