Is it normal that i feel so obsessive like this?

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Me & my boyfriend are taking a break & I just feel so much pain. I miss him so much & we just started it today. I can't just not be with him .I hate it! So we're taking this break because I think it's what's best for us. Especially me but he's okay living the time of his life & here I am just dying & gosh we're emailing e.o (because he doesn't want me to be completely "alienated" from him) but gosh I hate this feeling. I just want to be next to his side. I'm conflicting emotional pain on myself but it's for something that's right? What do you think I should do? just break up with him & move on (since I've already became obsessed or is there a way to tame this obsession into healthy terms?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I know how you feel.. It would be easier if you mentioned why you took the break. Honestly it can work both ways, it can get better when you guys are back together or it can be worse. I don't think anything can help you with the pain because you want to be with him but can't. You should try to talk with him to see what he wants and if this break is really needed.

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  • jensapa
    12 years ago

    My BF has to see me every day. I get a bit sick of him!

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    My boyfriend misses me a ton, so it's def normal. Being separated after an extended period of seeing each other a lot can be a bit traumatic.

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  • thebuddah
    12 years ago

    All of you who are a "wreck" really need to have some self respect and love for yourselves. Do u think the guy is gonna have that hard of a time getting over you?no! So get a grip

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    Yeah, where did the break up idea come from?
    My boyfriends out the country for two weeks and I'm a wreck. It happens.

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    • opal-leaves
      12 years ago

      Well the break came about because this is how we usually are. We are the most amazing couple ever (non-cocky lol) for a couple weeks & then once a month I always have some strange break down & start complaining that he doesn't love me that he is changing etc etc. & the MAIN problem is that I don't trust him. I don't know how to! I know he wouldn't cheat on me but I always find myself snooping through his email, facebook, twitter, formsprings. & I always though I did it because I was nosy & just like to be in his stuff but I think it's cause I am actually not trusting him. He's always here for me & he's never given me a reason why not to trust him but ahh I just can't & I know it's cause I've had a rough past & I know shouldn't campare him to that but I end up doing it anyways :/

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  • almostunreadable
    12 years ago

    How long are/were you in relationship? Perhaps you just got used to his company and now you don't know what to do with yourself.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Why in the hell did you want a break if you feel this strongly?

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