Is it normal that i feel so down?

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Okay, this guy, I've liked for a long time. We finally started chatting on Facebook, and he has said he likes me and that I am beautiful. Well today, while chatting, I excused myself to go wash my face and get ready for bed. i don't know what happened, but the cam-corder went ahead and took a picture of my face!! I look like Godzilla's wife. And it's no help that I have a skinny frame but a puffy face and a bulbous schnoz. we had talked till late, so my eyes were so puffy and dark. And my acne showed full blown. I look sooooo disgusting it's not even funny. i deleted the message on my part, but I know he will always have it with him. i feel like crap nowww :(. And when i told him
"ewwwww that was a mistake, that photo was a mistake",
all he said was "wow you need to take it down. Goodnight."
I have never been so mortified all my life! I'm so sad. is it normal that i am reacting this way? I don't know what to do...:(

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  • Marmarc
    12 years ago

    U will be ok, if he dont like u then im sure there is some other guy out there that will be lucky to have u! So if that hurt u then that is understandable but just try your best to move on and find someone else. If he dont talk to u again Bc he saw that picture then he probly didnt want u for u anyway, just saying but then again i could be wrong lol

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  • mr.hmm
    12 years ago

    To panic this much about one's appearance is abnormal. Your bf says you look fine this means you look fine; it is your perception of your appearance that isn't fine.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Console yourself with the fact that everytime he sees you from now on, you will be gorgeous in comparison :o) Your looks can only get better.

    Aw cheer up. He's seen you at your very worst so if he keeps talking to you, he really likes you a lot!

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  • Marisol
    12 years ago

    I understand why you are feeling as you are. However, you have to realise that this happens to most people one time or another. And something else, it does not matter and you should not beat yourself down about it.

    Don't be sad. There are worse things in life than taking a horrible photograph of oneself. If you focus too much on things that make you feel sad, the fact is, this will make you feel worse. So, my advice to you is: forget about the photograph.

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  • LightningTechnician
    12 years ago

    Stop overreacting already drama queen, it's not a big deal, get over it.

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