Is it normal that i feel rejected by my boyfriend at times?

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IIN? I just feel like he doesn't want me around sometimes or to be around me. Or to talk to me.

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  • niniozo
    11 years ago

    I know this will sound really vain, but you either need to dump him, or play hard to get. You are too dependent on him and he is taking advantage of this. Show him that you don't need him, and you are fine without him. He will come crawling back. And if he doesn't, maybe it wasn't meant to be.

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  • RinTin
    11 years ago

    Sometimes people need their space or want to be alone. Sometimes we misinterpret what others do because we are insecure. If it's bothering you just talk to him so you can figure out what's going on.

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      This.

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  • joybird
    11 years ago

    Look at it as an opportunity to go and do your own thing rather than hang around baby-sitting him!

    Think positive - it's his loss!
    He'll start to miss you if he has to chase after you a bit.

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  • crimson_mamba
    11 years ago

    more details please

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  • VentingEquinox
    11 years ago

    First of all you should really talk to him about how you feel, and you'll find direct answers from him instead of answers from totally random strangers who don't have enough information to make an educated guess about the issue that your having. One that I can def. notice is the lack of communication. Remember the key to a successful relationship is communication!

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    There are too many possibilities in this scenario and not enough details. You aren't mentioning how much time you spend together vs how much you prefer. Including alone time. Also, does he avoid you, or is he literally just busy? You have to explain a lot more.

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    • thundersnake
      11 years ago

      We don't spend time together afterschool, it's during school that we only see each other. I wish I could see him afterschool all the time but we can't. He doesn't avoid me but It feels like he would rather do other things rather than to try to talk to me.

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      • iEatZombies_
        11 years ago

        Whether he is interested in spending time with you personally or not depends on what he's doing when he's not with you. Either that or he may feel that your time spent together is time well spent, and that you will have plenty of time to get to know each other- so he's not worried about it. He may feel he should spend time solving problems- if he doesn't feel their are problems in your relationship, he won't focus his time on it. Men are usually hands-on problem solvers.

        I'm not sure his personality, these are just possibilities. I'm just letting you know it might not be a bad thing- so don't jump to conclusions.
        Talk to him about your concerns, then leave it alone and see what happens.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Maybe he is engaging in the part of his life that is outside of the relationship? Remember, simply because he is with you in a relationship, doesn't mean he has to be with you all the time, same goes for you.
    Maybe you are trying to do everything with him in his life that he wants space, and he feels he can only do that when he intentionally shows that he's ignoring you so that he can be given some time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    What is giving you that sensation though? Is it anything specifically that he is doing?

    It could be your own insecurities that make you feel that way, OR he could legitimately be sending you stay-away signals. It's is impossible to tell from your vague story what is really going on.

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