Is it normal that i feel nothing for my mom?

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Hey everyone. I'm really confused and don't know what I should do.
So my mom left my family to go live in another country with some other guy. It's just me and my dad living in the house now. She used to run everything in the house and at work so she kind of left a lot of ruin behind.
I'm a 19 year old guy busy studying at university.
My mom sends me emails every few days trying to keep in touch.
I don't really feel anything for her though; to me she just seems like a weak whore.
I don't like talking to her; it ruins my day because I just feel guilty afterwards for not feeling anything. I'm nice to her but there's no emotion. She still really wants there to be a relationship between us but it's hard enough to make a relationship work when all you're doing is emailing. I'm scared she's just trying to seem like she still loves me so I don't feel abandoned and she doesn't feel guilty. In which case I wouldn't mind never talking to her again.
She's married to the other guy already and has recently got a job.
Is this normal? What would you guys do?? Any advice would be really appreciated.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    I feel nothing for my dad!

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  • Aewe101
    11 years ago

    If you don't like someone any more and they make you feel bad font talk to them even if that person is a parent... Maybe in the future when your older maybe than you and your mom can work things but only if you want

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  • SeverusFan23
    11 years ago

    I think you should try to set things right with your mother. But that's just my opinion.

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  • GrayGhost352
    11 years ago

    If you feel nothing for your mom you will be better off not emailing her. If you truly dislike speaking with her and she ruins your day jut quit emailing her. I know this sounds cold but that's what I would do.

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  • CheyChey
    11 years ago

    I have a similar relationship with my dad we live in the same house but I don't speak to him at all if I do we're just being polite or having a full blown argument. My advice to you is if your uni isn't that far from where she lives you could meet up on the weekends and just hangout which is much better emails are rather impersonal. The fact that she's emailing you means she wants a relationship with you give it a go you have nothing to lose and nothing to gain since you said you wouldn't mind if you never speak to her again but at the same time you could gain this wonderful relationship with her.

    You feel she's a weak whore and I won't even judge you for saying that about your own mother because I feel the same way about my dad I think he's a weak man whore a raging womaniser that makes me hate him so I can relate to what you're saying. You have to make a choice if you try and it doesn't work out it's best to give up and move on with your life because you'll keep getting reeled in into an emotionally draining situation which you would rather do without. All the best!

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