Is it normal that i feel like this?

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Hi. I'm a girl, just turned 18 last October. Sorry for my bad English because I'm Filipino, but I hope you'll understand what I'm trying to say.

Well, I'm a kind of conservative person (in clothing, and acting) but I have a good humor and I assume that I'm kind to all my classmates and friends. One day, one of my friends (a boy) told me that my two guy classmates said to him that they wanted to take an advantage on me (if you know what I mean), and really wanted to try me. After I knew this kind of shit, I feel awful and uncomfortable to myself. I ask my friend if what's wrong with me and why they have said that and he answered, "Maybe because you are 18, have great body, and your sex appeal is so strong that some of guys would attract in you, so you have to be aware of your 2 classmates because they might rape you"

I don't know how to express what I feel, I don't even know what's wrong with me, coz I'm not doing anything fishy to them. I feel so awful today. I think this is the worst feeling I have ever had. I'm so afraid and I'm ashame of my everything. Please help me.

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  • Paradiddle
    11 years ago

    Do NOT be ashamed, don't even feel bad. These are not going to be the first guys that think this, trust me. Even if you have a male friend, he has probably had fun in his brain without saying anything but since those two guys are not your friend, they feel like they can voice their desires about you simply because they can't control their urges. Solid waste holds more value than them though, which is why your friend would never tell you that.

    You didn't do anything wrong and if it was anything, you simply looked really pleasing and caught some attention. That in itself is actually a good thing but I doubt those classmates have the guts to try anything on you, talk is cheap. If you'd like, confront those guys face to face and see what they have to say then. Either way, stop feeling bad, feel great about your looks instead and feel bad for guys who lack self control and make false claims.

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    • AvrilLavigne
      11 years ago

      I'm about to confront them yesterday but I remind myself not to do anything, cause it would be another issue in our class and the rest of my classmates might stay away from me I'd rather be quiet and behave myself well coz I know I didn't do anything fishy to them.

      Anyway, Thanks for this great comment! I think you're right! Now I feel so comfortable and not afraid right after reading this helpful comment. Thank you, Paradiddle :)

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      • Coolieo
        11 years ago

        Tell the counselor that those 2 guys are talking like that about you. It makes me angry that people even talk about that behind people's backs. It just makes me angry.

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        • AvrilLavigne
          11 years ago

          That's what I am suppose to do. But I think I have to forgive them this time.. But if they'll do this again for next time, I will kill them xoxo. Thanks for your precious time for reading my post. I really appreciate it :)

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          • peterr
            10 years ago

            You all sound like cocksuckers to me!

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    Why are you ashamed, it's not your fault that they can't control their thoughts. If you are dressing to sexily maybe tone it down.

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