Is it normal that i feel like this?

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First off id like to start by saying Hi to all of you cause im new to this website. Okay now that ive broken the ice, ill tell you my story. I'm 17 yrs old and i have a massive crush on this one girl. (i know what you're thinking, "omigawd not this shit again". trust me, its different... i think) Anyways i think its gotten to the point where I'm obsessed with her. I mean i think about her all the time and everything reminds me about her. creepy, right? Well the reason i haven't asked her out yet is because i know 2 of my friends really like her too and since I'm such a nice guy, i let them ask her out first but they haven't done much. since i haven't told them that i like her too, i feel like it'd be really shady if i asked her out. I think id lose them as friends if i did that. I guess what I'm trying to ask is, how do i get over my obsession? i know its not good to be obsessed over someone and its killing me. Help, please!

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Hi, by the way. Welcome to IIN!

    I don't think it's that creepy. I don't get caught up like that any more but I certainly did for 18 months when I was 15/16. I'd have taken a bullet for her. I used to live really near the school so I never got to walk home with anyone but I'd pretend I had to go to the shops just so I could walk a bit of the way with her.

    If your friends haven't really made a move and all of you really like her, I don't see why you should still have to hang back. Have a talk with your friends, tell them how you feel. If you asking her out is going to ruin your friendships, then at least you'll know about it before any damage is done.

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    • bulbasaur
      11 years ago

      Wow, thanks man! you're very helpful.

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      • dappled
        11 years ago

        Ahh, you're welcome. One of the reasons for the site is to help each other out. Good luck with it all, by the way.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    You definitely shouldn't let the girl you like go to one of your friends just to be nice. You will regret it for the rest of your life, trust me.

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  • Weirdgirl
    11 years ago

    I'm shady! I'm slim shady yeah I'm the real shady :) But serious just ask her

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