Is it normal that i feel like isitnormal changed?

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So this website is to rant or open up your feelings or tell your deepest secrets. I've had an account a few years ago and I realized that people back then that used this website used to be so understanding. If you didn't relate to the question than you wouldn't answer the post with negativity.

People with the same situation or feelings would write to you and make you feel like you're not weird. People would say they understood.

Now it's different people give you back such negative advice or say hurtful things to make you feel like you're weird. They hurt your feelings and most everyone can't relate to your post except for just about 1 or two people. Has anyone else noticed this?

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  • Freedom_
    9 years ago

    It must have already changed when I signed up a few years ago lol. I don't remember that.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Trolls be trollin'. I honestly try to use any trolling or meanness from others here to practice distress tolerance. Learning to better tolerate stress is good for BPD. Shitty things people say are more a out them than you. I also try to remember that I'm powerless over others and their ideas and opinions.

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  • Dad
    9 years ago

    "People with the same situation or feelings would write to you"

    They must have been horrible dark days. I'm so glad that replies can now give equal responses on both sides of the topic.

    In the old days if someone had posted they like kicking cats IIN? I dearly hoped you would have replied and said 'seek help'? ;)

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Yes, it is better now.

    If you can't handle someone being mean, the internet is not for you. It's nobody's job to monitor rudeness and it is something everyone must accept as part of life, because people have the free will to say what they want.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Garbage in, garbage out.
    I believe that those who take the time to compose well written intelligent posts about subjects that are even slightly plausible get responses of equal attention.
    Bullshit posts get bullshit responses. It's really that simple, IMO.

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    • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
      9 years ago

      I agree with you. This website has changed . . . .

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  • Ace09
    9 years ago

    My account's not that old, but that's what I'm gonna do from now on. I'd be waaaaaaay more helpful then.
    Thx for the advice dude.:)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    9 years ago

    It is getting awfully smelly in here.

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