Is it normal that i feel like im not important?

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Sometimes I feel like my dad just doesnt care about me :( like the other day I got into a bike accident my bike fell on me and it bruised my ribs really bad and when I told him he said "your breathing right?" he doesnt talk to me anymore. Ever since that day, I think its because I didnt do something he wanted me to do right away, but I was doing something at the time and he got mad. Im not gunna lie it breaks my heart that he doesnt talk to me at all and he has a way better relationship with my sister. Just writting this made me cry :'( am I horrible daughter?

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  • ijustmakeitworse
    11 years ago

    Don't worry, someday somebody will come along and make you feel like the most important person in the world:) This is very much like my experience with my dad. I would be deathly sick and losing weight because I could not eat but he didn't care.

    No, you are not a horrible daughter. You're just being a daughter with normal expectations of your dad.

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  • valbdreamer
    11 years ago

    The fact all this situation breaks your heart, means (for me)you are not a bad or terruble daughter. There is just something going on with your dad. something you did, something you didn't do. People are crazy and get mad because of shitty stuff. You should ask him. Otherwise, you'll be wondering why he's treating you like that, and it's not healthy. at least you have the love from your friends and family. Hope you can talk about it with your dad ;)

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  • Mark3L
    11 years ago

    well if your dad doesnt love you i do. keep your head up and pray that god gives you guidence

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  • PrincessRaspy
    11 years ago

    *@EndlessSuffering

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  • PrincessRaspy
    11 years ago

    @EndlessSiffering, I sound like a bitch because, I care about the realationship between my father &' I ? Dont say I sound like a bitch &' say no offense after.

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  • EndlessSuffering
    11 years ago

    You seem like a bitch, no offense.

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  • Squeeky714
    11 years ago

    My dad and I have the same kind of relationship. My little sister is the one he loves and he just ignores me. I don't get it.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Also consider the possibility that he has his own problems going on and it has little to do with you.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Tell him how you feel. I'm sure if he realises he is hurting your feelings he will try harder

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    you are not a bad daughter at all, you care so you cant be bad, life is hard sometimes try and go about your business doing things and give him less thought, he will come round

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  • bananaface
    11 years ago

    You didn't write enough for us to be able to judge whether you're a bad daughter. And the only person who knows why your dad is acting this way is you dad, so if you're going to ask anybody, ask him.

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