Is it normal that i feel like i'll never love another girl

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My girlfriend of half a year broke up with me today. Even the the relationship was short, I felt the strongest about her out of any other girl. I loved her, I put in so much effort into our relationship, and she just didn't feel the same way. We both agreed on the break up so there wa no fighting or anything.

I just think I'm screwed from here on out. Im about to finish my senior year in high school, and probably won't be going off to college next year. I won't meet nearly as many girls as I did in school, so I just feel like my chances at real love are now lost. I'm in such a depression because this girl was everything to me. And now I feel like I won't be able to find another like her ever again. Is this a normal feeling, do you think I'll be able to find someone to fill this aching whole that she left in my heart.

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  • LOL:)
    11 years ago

    It is normal to feel this way, but there are always more fish in the sea (so to speak). the one you have been waiing a lifetime for could be around the corner. give everyone a chance. Even someone who comments on something you right on here could be the one you waiting on. So cheer up. If she broke up with you, she a total bitch, cause just from what you typed, you sound like a nice person whom no one should break up with :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You are far too young to be giving up so easily right now. Being a senior in high school means your real life is about to start. In fact it was probably a blessing in disguise that this happened as you wont be burdened down by a relationship at all. And you can perhaps enjoy being your and single.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      *being YOUNG and single.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    It's a normal feeling, but one thing that you probably don't realize now is that it's not the end of your life. I know it sounds cold and callous of me to say, but when you are not spending 8-10 hours a day in a government institution, love is much easier to find. I say that because the majority of the people that you have met up until graduation are people that are there out of obligation, not because they have a genuine value for education.

    I have gone through this kind of thing before as well. It's a normal thing, especially when you have been with a girl for a year at your age, but your chances are far from gone. You're so young, just focus on making yourself happy and building up your own life and in the course of things, you'll find someone.

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