Is it normal that i feel like i'll never have a regular life?

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I'm 19 and I live with my parents, is it normal to feel like I'll never have a normal job, a home, a husband, children...? I know the definition of normality isn't just "a house and kids" but I feel like I'll never have a home of my own. It seems so natural for my friends, they build their lives one step at a time... This feels sooo out of reach to me...

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  • chubbawubba69
    12 years ago

    You are quite young so I wouldn't worry about it.

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  • plum6
    12 years ago

    this is called puberty my boy

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    It's normal. I often wonder about living my life, my future, if I'll ever find somebody to love me,etc. My friends seem to have found a easier way to deal with life. They've had relationships, are social, not a care in the world and seem to have their futures already planned out...

    I guess the only thing people like us can do is to go one step at a time and hope for the best.

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  • zchristian
    12 years ago

    If your 30 and still live with your mom and dad now that would be something to worry about i myself have chosen to live with my mom untill im ready to move which i think is when im around 21...

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  • suckonthis9
    12 years ago

    How would you feel if your father lived somewhere else, nearby and only came to your house when your mother invited him for sex?
    You would continue to live with your mother, and eventually would take over her duties as head of the household.

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    • violetgrape
      12 years ago

      this cracked me up

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      • suckonthis9
        12 years ago

        Look into the Mosuo Culture in China.

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