Is it normal that i feel like i can't please my boyfriend ?
My boyfriend and I have sex regularly and I enjoy it. But sometimes I don't feel like I satisfy him. I can't tell if he's pleased or not. Is this normal ??
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My boyfriend and I have sex regularly and I enjoy it. But sometimes I don't feel like I satisfy him. I can't tell if he's pleased or not. Is this normal ??
First: Did he cum? While not the say-all, end-all thing, most guys seem pretty content/pleased if they got off.
Second: Is it always HIS job to initiate intercourse? If so, try swapping things around, without pressure. As cliche as that sounds: Be a maiden AND a whore.
Third: Combine #2 with something new and exciting. Are you always only doing it at home? Try pulling over with the car, changing booths at the mall, even a underwater handjob when going swimming. Don't overdo it, of course, but spice things up a bit _IF_ he seems to react positive to that.
Fourth: What exactly makes you question yourself? While questioning yourself _IS_ normal, the reason would be necessary. If you question your performance because he rolls over and starts snoring, i can quite assure you he's pleased.