Is it normal that i feel like he doesn't really like me?

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Look I don't want any kind of hate mail.
He's literally twice my age, always kind of flirted with me, said he lived alone and stuff. So, we don't see each other, then we do. He asks me to dinner, we had dinner, went to his place, got it in. He held my hand before he even kissed me, and walked me out when I decided to leave and gave me goodbye kisses. He didn't say he'd call me or anything. Well, he texted me the next day, not really saying much of anything. He also texted me today, which is the next day.., but he only texts me like, after work (fine I understand that) and doesn't say much at all. Just normal "hey what are you up to" type things... Now here is the thing. His house, had no pictures, no women's stuff, but I heard he was married. (obviously I wouldn't have slept with him if I saw pictures or anything indicating a woman lived there) I just don't know what to think. I don't know if he likes me or not, I don't know of he's maybe going through a divorce? I don't know if he's going to want to see me again... I don't really know much of anything. Normally, I know if someone likes me, for sure. I just can't tell. Is it normal to really just be this clueless about a guy?

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  • Eore
    13 years ago

    "..had no pictures, no women's stuff, but I heard he was married.

    What are you doing snooping through his shit?

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  • boxmonkey
    12 years ago

    if you didnt know him long before getting in it then you were probobly subject to a one night stand

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  • ravensuichiro
    13 years ago

    girl you better get your ass to talk to him about this..i mean you cant just go around guessing and figuring things out from his apartment..he spent time with you that means he is interested in you..yes it is normal to doubt since you still dont know him..but why not make it a chance to get to know him??

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  • destiny.94
    13 years ago

    You both need to talk about it and get your priorities straight. You don't want to end up hurt in the end. It sounds like you both are after different things so if you talk to each other about this, you may come to some agreement

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    I mean...shouldn't you have known anything about him before bumping uglies?
    He might not be looking for something serious since you all got dirty so quickly knowing nothing about each other. It was probably just a fling.
    Usually when men like you, you'll know. They're not usually very coy about their intentions.

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  • buckman
    13 years ago

    1. I wasn't snooping, you can see when things are and aren't there.
    2. Idk, idk if he shows a lack of care... I was there earlier and he was trying to cuddle with me, holding my hand, offered me something to eat & asked me if I'd like anything to drink. We just watched a couple tv shows, and a movie on the couch, then went off to bed and afterwards we watched a show together and then I got dressed and walked me out and kissed me.. Idk that he doesn't care, but I also dont know that he does.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Hmm well of course he's gonna be extremely nice and make you feel special so he could have every chance of sleeping with you. He may or may not be married and probably would lie to keep what he has with you. It doesn't mean he isn't married if he has no pictures, it's very easy to hide everything in your own house. Now that he had his way with you, he obviously shows a lack of care for you in my opinion. He pretty much got what he wanted but I could be totally wrong about how I see this. I'd say to stop seeing him but it's up to you.

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